Girls, what would you do if you think your husband cheated?

Question

I don't have cold-hard proof but all the signs are there that he may have been unfaithful to me while out of town on work. What should I do? If I ask him he won't tell me the truth.

Answer 1

I would take him into the bedroom and very seriously interrogate him and say that you need to know what's going on for sure, otherwise you're going to leave him.

Then I would unzip his pants and jerk his c**k with tremendous violence.  

Answer 2

Well I left mine but I had cold hard facts-  I caught him in bed with her.  I had a lot of similar situations pop up in our marriage and I can tell you that my gut feeling was right all along.  I don't know if you have kids or not, but it will be easier now to leave before you forgive him and have a child and then he does it again.  I am not sure if this has been a problem or not in the past for you but just remember that this incident should just put up a red flag for you.  

Answer 3

all situations are different, but if it was me he'd be gone, thats a pretty much unforgiveable mistake.ask him about it, you'll know in your heart by his reaction whether or not you need to be worried

Answer 4

Surely you don't need a ton of bricks to fall on your head before you get the hint, do you? He hooked up with a w***e, couldn't s***w her in front of his helper, paid for a room then she stole his wedding ring on the way out after he'd passed out, "satisfied" and spent. Punch him in the face and walk out on him.

Answer 5

wel find out more pruff and fallow him or if you have a bff tell her to follow him and find out more if he is den confront him and take off his manly hood (balls)  get mad and you now the rest hope this works!!!!

Answer 6

Alot of the time they are telling the truth if I were you I would wait until you actually had some real proof.

Answer 7

I would have some proof before I made those allegations....

Think about it...what if the shoe was on the other foot and he accused you of cheating and did not have any proof

Answer 8

Something is very wrong. The wedding ring part was a red flag. You guys better talk things out or the "not knowing what's going on" will drive you crazy. And you don't deserve that sort of treatment.

Answer 9

If you have a feeling that he is cheating, then you are probably right.  What you can do is make plans to go with him on his next out of town trip....make it seen like you want to rekindle the romance....get new s**y pj and everything....

While you are waiting to go on the trip look at his phone, receipts etc, you will have to play detective....

Please be prepare for what you find, because when you go looking you always find what you do not want to......

Answer 10

If he wont tell you the truth then you can't trust him and if you can't trust him you shouldn't be married to him in the first place

Answer 11

Get out now.  You dont want an STD.  He is cheating.  Remember if it feels funny go with your gut.

Answer 12

WEll he is ur husband and of course we need to trust them but if you have a wierd sense about it talk to him and tell him how you feel and if he acts like a jerk take a break go to a friends how forget about it have fun and if he still acts wired iam sorry but you might have to leave him because if he really love you he wont lie or cheat good luck!!!!

Answer 13

If you dont have cold-hard proof then there is nothing you can do but keep your eyes open and watch for more signs.

Answer 14

I divorced mine.  You can usually follow your gut feeling, unless you are one of those women who think their bf's always cheat on them.  Mine was easy, I got an anonymous letter from his other woman.