Girls, why am i still thinking about her?

Question

My ex broke up with me 4 months ago and played me along while she worked out what she wanted. I told her recently that I need complete closure and that we shouldn't stay in touch. She understood that and we havent had contact since. Our relationship was never going to work and her moods frustrated me constantly. There was very little that I liked about the relationship but why can't I get over her?? If she said for us to get back together tomorrow I would, yet I know it wuld be totally wrong. I always think about where she is, if she's seeing someone and it hurts. It doesn't make sense to me.. Why can't I stop thinking about her??

Answer 1

how long have you two been together?

sometimes, deep deep down inside your heart, you still love her but you don't realise it. tell her how you really feel.

good luck！XD

Answer 2

I guess it's just 'cause you're really hooked. You can't help it even if it's wrong. Even if the relationship didn't work out, you still care about her a lot. It shows. You want to know if she's alright and stuff. It's normal. You're used to being with her and acting like that. You can't just change that in a snap, could you?

The truth is, you really cannot get over a person completely. That's just the way it is. You were together, you can't erase that. It's something you just have to live with.

Also, there wasn't any closure. This would've been more helpful for the both of you because it will really set your mind that it's over. I think you both need it soon.

I advice you start thinking of other things that will keep you occupied and will keep your mind of her. Focus on yourself more, have fun, live life to the fullest and one day, you will meet someone right for you. :)

Answer 3

You dont just get over a person like that to the point

where you dont think about them , that just mean you

truly liked her . But dont try to talk to her because you

have to think about what she did before