Girls,if your husband can't give you good s*x but you truly love each other,will you leave him?

Question

he's a nice man,and he really love you with his sincere heart,and you love him too

he can do all he can do to show how much he loves you but the only problem is he can't give you good s*x.but he really tried to.

will you leave him?

Answer 1

That would not be my first option.  s*x is an important part of the relationship.  I would have him read s*x books, watch videos and practice every single day.  If you love the guy, give the relationship your all.  I'd give him a chance to improve with time.

Edit: What's going on with the thumbs down?  

Perhaps I should have added that it's not a reason I would divorce a man lol.  Lighten up folks it's just a hypothetical situation.

Answer 2

Well, first of all it's not something that someone "gives". s*x is something that you share.

Second of all, take a look at your wedding vows and think about why you got married in the first place. Only you can really answer this question for yourself.

Answer 3

Just teach him!

Married people have the advantage of the perfect lover, because we can teach them all the things that drive us crazy. Just walk him through it. If he is trying then he wants to learn, you are only hurting him and yourself by not.

Answer 4

You can always teach a man how to use a vibrator.  It's not that difficult.

So yes, I would stay with him.

Answer 5

teach him -

really tried to was probably doing what he thought was the right thing -

gently and compassionately tell him and explain to him what to do, how to do it, etc

it may take a while, but will improve - if he is not willing to learn....well......you have to decide on a sexless marriage, open marriage or divorce

Answer 6

No i wouldn't leave him cause there is more the marriage then just s*x.

Sure s*x is wonderful and great but its not the most important thing in a marriage.

Answer 7

absolutely not....it sounds like he is a good guy....s*x is definitely not the most important thing in a marriage.

Answer 8

no, s*x isn't everything.. there are other thngs you can do to enjoy eachother

Answer 9

never  their are sexual aids you and your spouse can use to help you.

Answer 10

First, was he good before? Because it's impossible to experience love without being sexually satisfied. If I want to marry a nice guy I can just marry a friend. I am a woman who likes s*x, and not once a month 5 minutes in missionary position. So if he was good before and then something happen, I'll try to work it out in any possible way and if it's not possible, yes I leave because I don't want to spend the rest of my life unhappy and unsatisfied just because I got married to that man. I have only one life. And those people who say that they don't care about s*x are probably those frigid wives that give their men s*x once a month.

Answer 11

Sorry, u do have a problem 'cause it's hard to find someone to love and get along. Maybe he is inexperienced in bed? or maybe u need to be more patient and try to guide him?!

Answer 12

My boyfriend can just lay there and I can still achieve what I want. So I basically do all the work but can still get to the point of no return.

I believe it isn't only one person who would ruin the s*x. Your mind has to be into it. Maybe buy some things that will help your mind "get in the mood"

I wouldn't leave him.

Answer 13

Well, you are one good s**t if you will leave him cuase he doesn't give you s*x.

Psh... there is more to life than s*x.