Girls AND guys opinion! Please help! :)?

Question

So there is this guy that I really think I like a lot.

Last year in eighth grade we started texting a lot, but we had never officially met in person or like talked in person.

So now I'm a freshman and he's a sophmore and the first week of school has gone by and we have texted a little but we haven't talked to each other in person.

Now, I'm not saying that he likes me cause I'm totally doubting he does cause there are these two girls that are now in eighth grade and they're like all over him like hugging him and stuff.

I really want to talk to him and I like him a lot, but I'm just really nervous and I don't want to act like those girls do cause I'm not 'like that' if you know what I mean? Haha. So can anyone help?

And we saw eachother at the football game and the after party thing last night and we just kind of ignored eachother. Or at least that's what i did...

Answer 1

Just go up to him and start a conversation.  

Answer 2

Well the best thing to do would be to talk to him in person. That doesn't mean you have to be like the other girls. Guys may like it when girls act like that around them but really they want a girl who respects herself and isnt "like that"

Answer 3

If you don't want to be like those girls then don't be. You're obviously not like them otherwise you wouldn't have said it =] So i reckon you should block out the shyness in yourself... send him a text saying Something like you want to get to know him properly as friends to start off with. If your relationship builds up enough, 1st of all, you'll be more confident with him and 2nd of all he'll be more confident with you. Act like yourself while your friends and he'll adapt to your personality.

From what you've written, He doesn't sound like the one to make the first move- go for it =] you're only young so you've got many years to start building guy confidence up so why not start now?

Go show those other girls

=]

Answer 4

well I'm a guy and that's a real dilemma. Just go up and talk to him for a little bit at lunch or something when he's alone. Lie meet him at his locker at the start of lunch. Formally introduce yourself and just talk about yourselves and get to know him. About week or so after, if you think that he likes you, then ask him out. But don't smother him like those other girls you were talking about. Hope this helps ya. :D

- Trevor

Answer 5

if you like him don't ignore him cause that's what he will do to you.

Try th etexting thing

Answer 6

your in what grade in 8 then i think your to young to be talk with boys and if the boy went to talk then they well come up and Sarto to talking to you and oh this what they well say how are you and say aim find then they well come up and still talk with you then you got a problem

Answer 7

talk to him!!!!!!