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Question

Lately ive been thinking about my ex boyfriend I had no idea we were together for a while..and he was my first love u could say.. Thing ended between us..I don't really know why neither does he.. we just up one day quit talking? weird huh?.. never really told each other it was over..we just quit talking all together?.. But now with having a baby on the way with my boyfriend now..I have been thinking about him non stop and Ive been real down and depressed about it... Why can I not get him off my mind? I love my current boyfriend DEARLY...So idk whats going on? Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

Answer 1

It seems to me that you had a wonderful time and relationship with your ex-boyfriend. Often people get nice taughts of great memories with a love one. It takes time to overcome it.

Answer 2

The reason why you still keep on thinking about your ex-bf is because, there was no closure on that relationship.  More often, we all feel we need to find out what's the end of the story, whether if it's a movie, a book or an a abandoned relationship.

We feel that need to fill up the blanks in our life.

We can resort to finding answers to those questions, or be contented that those questions are best left unanswered.

You have a present, wonderful relationship now.  Stop living in the past, that as if you cannot move on with life until you get your past resolved.

Live for what is now.  If you feel that your present bf is still not good enough for you, then leave him.  Leave him for the reason that you are not happy with him, but not because you are waiting for you ex-bf to come back to you.  

Answer 3

it could be the stress of you subconciously thinking about the baby and what ife would have been like without it

your hormones are probably just messing with you

if you love your bf, then focus on that and your baby to be

good luck!!

Answer 4

sorry to hear that. crush on someone else

Answer 5

Have you heard of the song "First Love Never Dies"? for me, first love or not as long as you had fallen deeply in loved with that person, it is not easy to completely erase him from your mind especially that the ending was not so cleared to both of you. sometimes we blamed ourselves when it's too late already to look backward and get back into the past when the new one is there in front of you. but since you are now deeply involve with the new guy and soon to have a baby, i think you need to focus on yourself to this new guy now, the future of your baby and the whole family. reminiscing all the past is of no help, instead, it will just ruin your current relationship. learn to forget things what had been done and enjoy what you have now. sooner or later, you might regret if you keep on thinking the past.

<>advance congratulations to your soon baby!

Answer 6

your first love is always the hardest forget. no matter how your reltionship ended or what came of it you will always remember it and he will always hold a special place in your heart. you will overcome this problem but it might take some time. theres really no advice to give but just try to concentrate on your new baby on the way and your boyfriend of the present. he will eventually get off your mind and it will be easier but until then just focus on your life that you are dealing with now. best of luck to you!!!!

Answer 7

First of all dont worry about you ex Thank God he didnt make it to your future instead of him you now have a baby and a boyfriend that LOVE YOU forget about you ex you found a guy while you were away from him and he probably found a girl you may not seem to be able to forget about him but just think about your baby you dont want him/her to be sad like the mother also do you?? Well just remember theres a reason some people in your past dont make it into your future and congrats on ur baby!