Girls: Have you ever had any relationship with a guy who is a player?

Question

What was your experience with him? Are you still in the relationship?

Did you get out of it? Or tell him off?

I'm just curious to see what other girls have experienced..

Answer 1

If he a player he will break ur heart stay fa far away lol for it will not be a happy ever after

Answer 2

Yes! We were together for 7yrs. He was definitely a ladies man. We would fight only because of this. Other then that, we got along fine. No we're no longer together. He died 2005. I don't think I would have left him. We would still be together. He would have changed for the better.

Answer 3

Yes. In high school, and never again.

Answer 4

of course. who hasn't?! at first it was really hard cause i did really like him. now we're more like friends with benefits. he has pissed me off so much in the past that it's hard for me to feel the same about him as i did. so now it's really just a casual thing. and yes i have told him off several times. ignored him, got back together, broke it off, you name it, we've been through it. but i geuss since i haven't met anyone else that i can see myself moving forward with, i can make do with him.  

Answer 5

Yeah im kinda seeing a guy and everybody is like dont date him hes a man w***e or a player and it really doesnt matter to me.. if you like someone go for it lol :) we stopped "dating"  but were going to start continuing our relationship  back up again when school starts  

Answer 6

You'll never get anywhere with a player...well, anywhere good, anyway. You won't be the girl to change his ways, and there will be other girls after you. While you sit there sobbing as he kisses them right in front of you. Put your efforts into a guy who appreciates just you, and doesn't need 50 girls fawning all over him to be satisfied. I was heartbroken, bitter, depressed, jealous, vengeful...and then I met someone much, much better. Going on four years player sober!

Answer 7

I think guys and girls play games in relationships.  Ever heard the saying the game of love.   I think each one of us has a horror story to tell where a guy or girl really hurt us.   I believe each of us knows exactly what our intent is in any relationship....therefore I think everyone is playing their own game.  Some are playing with intent to marry, some play for companionship, some play to get laid...but ultimately everyone has their own game.  

Answer 8

Yes I had the good old phone call from his other girlfriend and i left him even though he begged me not too but what you going to do when you find out your entire relationship is based on a lie!? She was a psycho too, they deserve each other!

Answer 9

There are some hot guys out there that just aren't worth the hard ride. Its all the little suprises you get that burn the flame out.  Women get savvy fast because these guys trip over themselves and their lies.  Their friends are symthetic to a point because the guy will never change.  See the video "Your the lucky one" by that county singer

Answer 10

You can always see where he is to make sure he is not lying with phonetrace.org.  Its very helpful

Answer 11

Most definitely! I just got out of a relationship with a man who was married throughout the entire relationship. He told me that he wanted to marry me, he was a christian and wanted to do right by me, and also wanted a bright future with me...until he calls me a few days later and tells me that he cant marry me, and wants to go back to his wife and work things out. He played me and mislead me with so much and it made me angry. I am still trying to let go of the situation, even though it is hard for me cuz its been 3 years. He was not worth my time b/c he lives down south in another state ( for over a year) and was verbally and emotionally abusive, took advantage of me, etc. I took him back many times, and he still played games. You just have to live and learn, cut your losses, and move on to better things instead of settling for less.

Answer 12

yess

Answer 13

Yes...and needless to say, we are exes. Why be with a guy who won't commit if you want to be in a serious relationship?

I just got out of it without really telling him why...I'm sure he already knew, so why bother getting into it? It's not like anything would change, and I didn't want to waste any more of my time on him.

Answer 14

I consider myself to be pretty smart, but I got TOTALLY played by this guy when I was a freshman in college.  I suspected he was just a user, but I had all these romantic ideas in my head and just let it happen.  I wasn't all that surprised when his interest in me suddenly ended, but it still sucked.  I was more disappointed in myself, but I just chalked it up to a bad experience & moved on.