Girls I need some dating help please?

Question

I need some major female help on my current girl trouble. For those of you who don’t know. Here’s the total short story. Left eye hurt. Father made appointment. Went to doctors. It was a Friday. Was on cell phone. Walked in. Saw really hot former classmate I graduated with from HS. Had a crush. Big crush. Found out from doctor she was single. Told doc about her, I said, "yeah, you don't forget a girl that looks like that" Doc laughed. Said you should tell her that. Told doc I don't even know if she’s single.Doc said, "As far as I know, she is" Got me thinking about her ever since. Made another appointment. Father canceled. Good reason: didn't buy eye drops for cure. Didn't want to spend more money, understandable.

That was all on Feb 15 2008. Then a month ago my glasses were weakening on me on the nose strap and they broke in half. My friend saw what happened he said “Oh now you have to go back there. It’s fate”

I want to be respectful of her job and time. She is a receptionist. Not like I can sit there and idle chat. Plus, my game isn’t that tight. So trying to get a receptionists number is kind of hard. I mean she IS working. My only regret would be her saying no to me. I can find another hot girl as a candidate. But she’s just so close to my type it’ll be hard to move on.

What should I do? Ladies?

1. should I even bother?

2. If I go in there should I act like I'm looking for glasses or just walk up to her and tell her that I like her?

3. has it been too long? Should I go after another girl?

Answer 1

yes just do it other wise you will never know come on pleeeeeease if you do let me know.....just gve her your number say you would love to have a drink some time if she calls awsome if not least you tried

Answer 2

This is going to sound harsh...but it'll make sense and help you...

Reread what you typed: "I want to be respectful of her job and time. She is a receptionist. Not like I can sit there and idle chat. Plus, my game isn’t that tight. So trying to get a receptionists number is kind of hard. I mean she IS working. My only regret would be her saying no to me. I can find another hot girl as a candidate. But she’s just so close to my type it’ll be hard to move on."

Know what that says to me?  Blah blah blah I'm a wuss-boy.  You know with that mentality...even if you try anything you'll fail with her.  Guaranteed.

First, don't care what a woman thinks of you.  Second, don't care what you talk about.  Thirdly, stop thinking so hard on something like this...just do it and be yourself when you do it.  All you're trying to do is get her digits so you can call her later.  There's no secret way of doing that.  It all starts with just saying "Hello" and go from there.  You have to have the mindframe of a fearless man.  A man of confidence and action.  All these questions and what-ifs is just subconsciously making you a wuss-boy and when a wuss-boy approaches a woman...what usually happens?  Yep, Rejection Road.

Good luck.

Answer 3

GO FOR IT!!!