Girls ONLY, im having trouble with tampons...?

Question

ok so this might we a little descriptive and gross but it's the only way... well you see ive tried to use a tampon several times but it never seem so go in all the way, well i even sat on the flour, got a mirror to see exactly what i was doing and i looked at some pictures(diagrams not real pictures!) to make sure i was putting it in the right place and i streched myself all the way out and in the spot where im pretty sure the hole was located at there is this pink skin that looks like it might be covering the hole, please help, is there something wrong with me?!? sorry for grossing you out but it's not plesant to me either, just help me and tell me if that's what it's supposed to look like, err i dont know just help as much as you can!

Answer 1

There should be a small hole in the pink skin that you mentioned. That sounds like you are describing the hymen.(The skin that breaks sometimes when a girl first has s*x)  There should be a hole because if you can bleed out of it, there must be an opening in it someplace. It might be possible that the opening is too small for a tampon although that is rare. The next time you go to the doctors for a physical, ask your doctor to look and see if the hymen looks right and explain the trouble you have had inserting tampons. they are very used to these types of questions so do not be embarrassed.

  As for inserting them. Do you stand in the position they show in the diagram for inserting them? I do know that the position you are in will affect how deep and how well they go up there. Also, use the smallest size possible and see if you can get it in. When I insert them, I even have to pay attention to how my feet are positioned to get the best depth when putting them in.

I hope this helps.

Answer 2

Well, they say this isn't true, but it wasn't til after I lost my virginity that I could get a tampon to feel "right".  

Anyway, if you don't know what hole is where, you need to get a mirror and squat down on the floor and look, you should be able to see everything clearly.  Nothing should be covering your vaginal canal.  You should see a clitoris, then a very tiny hole is your urethral opening (where you pee from), and then a little lower is the vaginal opening.

Also, relax, your muscles will tense up if you're scared and it won't make it any easier to get one in.  Try the "junior" or 'lite" size the first few times, they are thinner and easier to get in.  And make sure you get ones with applicators, those are easier the first few times.  Then once it's inserted, you should not be able to feel it at all.  If you can feel it, then it's not high enough.  

Answer 3

Well, it is awkward.  It will take you a little while to get use to them.  Your body probably isn't use to that sort of thing being there.  Just keep trying it, and one day, you will not mind it being there.  Trust me.  It took me a little while to feel "normal" when it was in place.

Answer 4

just so you know, when you say GIRLS ONLY boy will defintly come, sorry to say it, but its true, and good luck

Answer 5

Try a different position when you are inserting it.  Place one foot on the toilet with the other one on the floor.  This should make it much easier.  

Answer 6

i think the best way is to sit on the loo with your legs open. the main thing is just to relax cause if youre all tense nothings gonna go in! just feel around a bit with the tampon and guide it around it should fit in quite easily, if its applicator push it in and when your fingers touch your skin thats when you know to push it it in. if theyre lilets or something just use one finger and push it right in.

you could try standing up thats easier for some people

good luck

Answer 7

Im not a girl, but im not here to make fun...

look on youtube.com

there are a lot of video's on instructions...

http://www.youtube.com/results?search_qu...

Answer 8

When you can't feel it is when it is well positionned.

I never could get a tampon to fit right until I tried OB tampons, which do not have an applicator and which you insert with your finger. Those are the best as you actually FEEL where you are putting it. Never had any trouble ever since.

Answer 9

Try pads instead

Answer 10

Yes that is normal... you have to insert it at an angle... like facing back a little not straight up. It helps if you spread you legs while on the toilet. Insert the applicator and push the tampon in. It takes a few tries when you first start using tampons... don't worry  

Answer 11

Google "Hymen"

Answer 12

horse back ride

Answer 13

its yur hymen.. its not broken..  

Answer 14

okay. uhmmm. your kind of in the wrong spot. go like a little lower towards your butt. haha,  but not too far. your up by your clitoris. unless your kind of flexible you shouldnt be able to see into your v****a. try putting one foot up on the toilet or tub or something. the first time i used one, i could barely feel it go in! haaa