Girls....a would you question?

Question

Ok, so me and my friend emily have known each other before either of us could walk. we pretty much knew each other for 15 years. Shes been going threw alot lately and i been there every second. i really like her but she thinks i like her cousin. she talks to me about everything and i do too. im her 3rd top friend on myspace next to her sister and cousin. do you think it is possible for her to like me. i cant tell if she does or not, but idk if its too much of a relationship because we already no pretty much everything about each other. Do you think were too good of friends to date each other? i dont want to push my way into a relationship because i no she still has feelings for her ex's. please help im running out of ideas. 10 points guarranteed!

Answer 1

this is the classic i love by best friend situation. i say you just put it out there. your heart i mean. you know what to do... TELL HER. you don't want to live in regret. don't be one of those people who write songs about what could have been. just tell her. good luck!!

Answer 2

in all honesty, i don't think it will work.. i have a best friend and he came forward and asked me to date him but the fact that me and him were so close and we talked about everything i didn't like that. i wanted a guy who knows nothing about me so when he finds out he'll be accepting of who i am. i know you probably love her (not in love) and she loves you too but going to a relationship stage might hurt you in the long run. think about it, what happens if you break up? she uses everything against you and you the same. you might say it will never happen because your best friends but when stuff like that happens, there's never a guarantee.

Answer 3

I think that a relationship is worth a try, it is rare to hear that two were "too good of friends to date each other." However, if the two of you feel completely comfortable with each other, and you guys obviously talk a lot, the potential for a strong relationship is bright and clear.

My boyfriend considers me his best friend, even before we started dating and I feel the same way. I think that is a good way to have a relationship. You guys are best friends so I don't see why it isn't worth a shot.

You are wise not to pushing for a relationship. I know that when discussing the possibility of going out with my boyfriend before we started dating, we said that our friendship was very valuable to each other and we would be willing to put our feelings aside to maintain it. I think that if you do pursue a relationship, you should consider the same mentality.  

Answer 4

No I dont think you guys are too good of friends to date. i mean thats perfect lol.  ask her how she feels about you. tell her how you really feel. she might respect that you told her and give you a chance. :D

Hope This Helps You

♥Katie

Answer 5

i think u should wait a little bit longer to acctually tell her u like her but if she is saying stuff about other guys then just hint that u like her but if she cant read the hints then just come out with her but really u have to give like tree weeks of hints for her to read them i had the excact situation with my current bf. but if she likes u she will be able to read the hints

Answer 6

i think you should give it some time; but she might like you!

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Answer 7

I think you should just mention the idea of dating each other and see how it unfolds

Mention it casually

Answer 8

answer me pwese!

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Answer 9

if u have feeling for her why not ask her how she about u that the only way u will know if she doest have those feeling for u,

u can all way be best friend

Answer 10

Try a bit of flirting.If she flirts back, its a yes you shoudl ask her out!

He she says no, dint let that get in the way of your friendship.  

Answer 11

   No real insult meant but stop using comp speak IDK, and believe that My face, my place, My face is as silly a way to be close as a note in a bottle thrown into the Ocean. GEEZ you know her, you see her, get the guts to ask her.

   So many of you ask us, total strangers, and even if the answer you get direct isn't what you want, how can we possibly know?

   Get off the comp, get off yer hiney, and get face to face real.

A.F.

Answer 12

Be patient, move slow. She trusts and confides in you. Great loves start from great friendships. It's obvious she likes you but to what extent I am not sure. girls like to have a male view on things. You are her go to guy, which means a lot. If she is emotional right now it wouldn't be the time to make your move. Be cool and wait for your moment. You already have a great foundation to build on! Lots of luck!

Answer 13

I think that you two being so close is a good thing! My boyfriend is my best friend and it's the greatest relationship I've ever been in. I think that you should just talk to her about it. Don't make out to be something too serious though. For example, don't use the whole "I have to talk to you, it's really serious." thing. Just bring it up and tell her you think you like her more than a friend. It should work! =]

Answer 14

Aww thats cute, if you two did go out it'd be like the movies where the kids know each other forever and then date and marry. Thats adorable. Anyways, I believe she may like you and is probably going through the same things you're going through. Shes probably wondering ''I wonder if he likes me'' ;) Need to talk to her babe.  

Answer 15

I'd give it a bit more time, make subtle hints, stuff like that, but don't just come out and say it, that could end up ending your friendship. She may not even want to get into a relationship because she doesn't want to lose your valuable friendship, keep in mind that things may change hugely if you get into a relationship, or not very much, it all depends

Answer 16

hi if she is still hung up on her ex, give her some more time before you broach the subject. She obviously cares about you deeply, however, maybe only as a friend. How is her behaviour towards you, is she ever flirtacious or does her attitude change when you have a girlfriend. This is a hard one because she has known you so long she may not see you in that kind of light. Maybe you could joke to her about the two of you getting together and watch her reaction, good luck.