Girls and Guys..s*x question....?

Question

Gosh this is embarassing..lol uhm when my boyfriend and I have s*x, i begin to feel a little bit bored now.Are there any suggestions? Also...I dont believe that our "foreplay" is quite enough..........I feel so uncomfortable asking but are there tips...for that?

Dont say i shouldnt be having s*x and not be married 0_0 my parents did the same when they were engaged and im engaged too sooo yea..

Answer 1

If your going to be marrying this guy then you should be able to talk to him about s*x. Yes a good sexual relationship is a healthy part of any relationship. Try new things. Tell him you need more foreplay. Be open to his suggestions and have fun! After all you love each other.  

Answer 2

go get s*x books they have different positions you could try or maybe even try roll playing or maybe try and give each other oral s*x try new things don't be scared

Answer 3

well the only reason that youre bored is because you do the same thing over and over right? or maybe you have too much s*x. You should try new positions and such. But your relationship should be more than the s*x, so try laying off the s*x for a couple months are trying it again =]

Answer 4

Two words.

Kama Sutra.

Go for your life.

Answer 5

This isn't good for ur boyfriend, everyman cant be a super lover like me,sorry I had 2 stick that in there, oops sorry no pun intended, but seriously, talk 2 him tell him what u feel maybe hes alittle shy or just doesn't know... take control show him what u like, tell him how u want it and and how long..If u really care for him give it a try before the non s*x starts and u drift apart

Answer 6

pick up some books from Barnes and Nobles or just reaad some passages out of them

then experiment in the bedroom good luck ;)

Answer 7

but ofcourse there are lots of fun ways to foreplay.. I mean you guys can carress each other, play poker, whoever wins decides what piece of garment should be taken off... give yourselves a massage... rub feet, play with hair.. give nice gentle kisses and let them lead to more intense ones.. flirt with him.. tickle him, enjoy him most of all.. good luck..

Answer 8

I THINK U SHOULD CHANGE YOUR PARTNER OR  I THINK HE IS NOT SATISFYING YOUR NEEDS  OR U ARE THINKING ABOUT OTHERS WHILE HAVING s*x.

Answer 9

you dont have to lie i know youre not really engaged and thats cool. if you guys are close enough you should be able to talk about "spicing things up"... its ok i get bored too sometimes. i either move on or discuss it.

Answer 10

well did u try to ask him to try something different during foreplay something that would spark ur interest? u should talk about what u like don't like and what u would try to make it more exciting .

Answer 11

HI.. can try to help.. try to get a bit of space from each other first.. go out with girls. couple day trips.. etc.. miss him. or he can go away with the boys.. then the excitment is back.. for one.  Other suggestions wud be differrent types of s*x.. if you always. do the same thing.. TRY.  handcuffing (for fun).. watching p**n...together. pick some out... etc. you get the idea.. create the excitement..  go from there.. but time apart.. with different people. does create.. your missing him.. then stronger attraction etc..   :)  have fun

Answer 12

Make it more rough.

Answer 13

This may be a problem expecially if you are getting bored and you are only engaged. What is it gonna be like when you are married? The s*x drive tends to go down over time as you get more comfortable with one another. I suggest nipping this one in the bud now. Just let him know you want more foreplay and show him what you want. He may just need a little help in this area. Also he feeling pressured now that you are engaged?