Girls are so confusing..?

Question

okay well i have this best friend

we are both sophmores

and shes a girl

and i really like her

and she likes me

and we've been through alot

and done alot together

but at the same time

theres this other girl or likes me

and i like her too

but i just dont know who to ask out

im not gonna ask one out and cheat on

her with the other :/ thats messed up

but its so hard to choose

if i chose my best friend,

then if we break up we probably

wont talk anymore and i dont want that

any advice..?

Answer 1

It doesn't relate to the title. but anyhow. you should be honest with yourself and see who you are really interested in.  

Answer 2

hahahaha scew you. i think having s*x mean your together  

Answer 3

well your bestfriend might be a little jealous if you choose the other chick but just date the one who you can see yourself having a better relationship with.

Answer 4

it depends

who do you like and for what reasons

cos if you like someone just cos shes hot thats not a good reason but if you like their personality to then go for it lol

well the bes friend thing yea but also she might be a really koo girlfriend

EDIT: if you ahd s*x then go wit her

thats messed up if u chose the other girl

Answer 5

define done stuff with it kinda sounds bad =O

but I would go with the other girl better than putting the friendship at risk

Answer 6

From my experience, in a relationship, any relationship, what you're looking for is a good friend first.  The physical stuff will most likely fall into place if you connect first on a mental and emotional level.  

It's true that it can be a friendship wrecker if you have a bad breakup, but it's also been my experience to be totally and completely worth it.  

Answer 7

Go out with the one you slept with. I'd be so mad if I were her, and then you just turned around and dated another girl. You should of thought about how it would affect your friendship before you had s*x with her. If you break up, that's the way it was meant to be. Everything happens for a reason, so you might as well try.  

Answer 8

I answered your other Q. Don't have s*x anymore.

Answer 9

You are a SOPHOMORE -- what, 15/16?  You are too young to be committing to ANYONE at this point.  

Be friends, go out, have fun -- but asking someone out should not be a prelude to an engagement ring!  Stop trying to put a label on the relationships, get to know the other girl, and your decision will make itself, you won't have to struggle with it.  Isn't that so much easier?