Girls can be really confusing...?

Question

lol sup. I normally don't post things like this, but I had a question for you gals out there. I met someone just last week, and she seemed pretty cool, and pretty interested at that. So yeah, this chick never answers her phone when I call her. The first time I called her, we talked on the phone for about an hour, and it was pretty cool. I dig her, I think she digs me... but she hasn't been answering her phone when I call. Im not trying to look desperate, so I call her like once in a day. If she doesn't answer, I don't call her back. So its been the third time I called, and I keep getting her voice mail. lol, wtf I thought girls were really into their cell phones... Dunno, maybe she's not really the phone type. Hah, whatever. It seems that when I text her, she responds nicely. She's pretty mature for her age, I don't think she'd keep me by the leash if she didn't give a ****. So what do I do? keep it casual? keep calling once a day till she picks up? keep texting till she loses that awkward phone sickness she's been having? or just bon voyage this chick? I dunno, I thought when we met we had something going. I've been through this enough times to tell when someone wants me to leave or stay. She keeps giving me motives to stay, but she doesn't really act like it. We just met, so thats why im pretty neutral on this whole thing. My gut instincts are telling me to keep trying or try harder. But I don't wanna look like i'm desperate.

Answer 1

she's just playing hard to get..that is unless she really doesnt like u. just say "Do you like me? I just want to confirm it so we dont feel uncomfortable later on"

Answer 2

i'm no chick, but it seems like she's not that interested anymore. she may have been at first, but it only takes one little thing to spin them the other way. try not calling her for a few days. if she really digs you, she'll give you a call, wondering why you haven't talked to her in a while. if she calls resist the temptation to answer. then call her back, throw in a line about how you couldn't answer because you were busy (something fun... it can be b.s.) then just chat. keep the conversation short, fun and end it first.

if she doesn't call back, give it one more shot and then move on. there is an abundance of great girls out there. you'll find one eventually.

always remember, your the prize.