Girls.. do you link hands with your friends when you are out?

Question

And how do I tell someone to stop doing it, in a less blunt or rude way.. I really hate it.

Answer 1

Haha...I ignore it but you could tell them to hold something of yours lol...keeps their hands busy. What i hate, is grown people hi5-ing each other so god d**n much...GROW UP PEOPLE!!! hhahahahaha

Answer 2

Link hands, or arms?

Its sweet that this person thinks your the bee's knees of a friend.

But if you hate it, just gently say to her, that you are uncomfortable with it...

Or, lie, saying you get a stiff arm, and smile nicely as you say it, or your shoulder gets all stiff...

Answer 3

lol I do that, but I don't like doing it everywhere.

Just tell them..

Answer 4

no i dont like it, if they are your mates u should be able to tell them easily

Answer 5

I only link arms with my girlfriends. If you don't like it tell them. It's not rude

Answer 6

Yeaah i get what you mean.

For me its a bit touchy,

We sometimes link arms though,

Thats not as bad :)

Try that?

x

Answer 7

No, that is for first graders.

Answer 8

No I don't, I don't really feel the need to do that. You should just say to your friends that you hate it, seeing as they're your friends they shouldn't be too bothered. Just say Sorry but I don't feel comfortable doing this, or something along those lines   =]

Answer 9

no

Answer 10

Nope, I definitely don't. The only reason I'd be holding on to a friend is  if they had too much to drink and needed assistance to walk to the cab (or vice versa..lol).

If your friend keeps holding your hand, you've got to let her know you don't like it or she's going to just assume it's okay. Gently and politely tell her that you aren't really comfortable with it. A true friend will understand.