Girls.. don't you get fed up with the men on here making snide comments about lack of s*x?

Question

Since they got married to their woman. they all go on about how they never get it now they got hitched and it's all our (the womens) fault! Do any of them actually stop and take a long look at themselves and think that maybe, just maybe it's them and not us? and maybe if they made more effort with their appearance like when we first met them, then maybe we would actually WANT to have s*x with them?

Answer 1

One of my relatives had a quotation "It takes a good man to make a woman a good lover".  So perhaps they should first look at their own short-comings instead of blaming their wives.

Answer 2

I think it goes both ways. I think its the women's fault for not taking care of their mans needs and then complaining because they cheat on them.

Then I think its the man fault for not loving the woman like he should and still expect her to have s*x with him and cheat on her and then get a divorce.

My question is who stops the cycle?