Girls...dont you find it annoying! ?

Question

that like you're attracted to you know, the "bad boys" but then always end up with the good guy. i've liked this one "bad boy" for like 2 years. he just fools around in clas in stuff and gets in trouble but hes not like really bad. but compared to me he is cuz ive like never gotten a B and stuff like that.

but last year he said he likd a girl but would sat what color hairor anything. but he said he was gonna tell her next year. which is this year. like i wouldnt go out with him..i dont think id be allowed. but always makes eyecontace with me in the hall. and when i talk to him..like if im the only one standing there hes really nice. but he always goofs off with his friends.

{i was kinda venting here too..in case you read my other question haha}

but yupp. just share your thoughts. :)

Answer 1

Here's my thought:  You never got less than a B?

Answer 2

Ya i was wondering what the question was lol. Well as long as you were able to vent, good for you.

Answer 3

he likes you and im in the same situation its hard. email thebest answer thx bye!

Answer 4

We are always attracted to the bad boys, I think because they carry conceit and self-confidence, girls are attracted to that.

I ended up being a single mother because of that. A perfectly good cute nice guy wanted to marry me even to raise the baby as his own, and he really loved me, but I turned him down and I ended up married to a bad boy and having a really difficult life.  

Answer 5

You like bad boys are you willing to deal with the crazy things that they do on a daily basis.  After a while being around it is not cute or funny. It is just plain annoying.  Good boys are annoying to because sometimes there is no excitement there. You have to decide which is the great chance you would like to take.  

You sound like you need to concentrate more on your grades than any boy but that is just my opinion.

Answer 6

We guys find "bad boys" annoying we know 99% of the "bad boys" are fake and playing into what a girl thinks she wants.  But in the end the good but not nice guys win..  

Answer 7

I'm not sure what your question is.  Do you like him, or not?  Do you think about him a lot, and wonder what he's doing when you're not around him?  Do you picture the two of you together, and what it would be like if you were his gf?  You seem interested in the mystery girl he supposedly likes.

Do you think part of his appeal is that you see in him the sort of "goof off" personality that you'd like to be sometimes, but you are too trapped in being "good"; getting good grades and fulfilling your parent's high expectations?

The thing I notice is, you write that  you've liked him for two years.   Two years is a very long time, especially at your age.  It sounds to me like you have a serious crush, and the "annoying" bit is that you can't get over him, but you feel a relationship with him would go nowhere, because of your parent's disapproval.  So you are trapped on an endless merry go round of loving him from afar, and not being able to either take a relationship with him any further, or get over him and on to a more suitable, acceptable guy.

What a depressing, frustrating situation.  You have to get a hold of this one way or the other, so that you can move forward.  Either get your courage up and start making your feelings more clear, or make up your mind that nothing can ever come of a relationship with him, concentrate on his irritating immaturity and goofiness, free yourself of him and get ready to have a real relationship with a real guy of whom your parents will approve.

Answer 8

well first off no one tells you who can an can/not go out with be a bad girl and sneak around!! PLANT SOME HINTS to him flirt and see what happens for the next week or so if he makes some moves go along with it if he does nothing than move on!