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Girls help please???

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well i am getting the present above for a girl i like who is also one of my closest friends. It is for her 21st birthday. I am good friends with her flatmates and i am not getting any of them anything like what i am getting for this girl.

Now using this info do u think she will realise that i like her. If she does what kind of reaction should i expect to from her if she likes me.

Also i am planning on telling her that i like her. Considering we are good friends do u think it will affect the friendship a lot if she says no to me considering i do not make her answer a big deal at all.

We love spending time together and have several times gone out on meals together alone. We have known each other for 2 years. I am good frineds with her flatmates and i am getting them stuff like s*x and the city posters and so on for their 21st birthday.

So there is a difference. Will she be able to realise that i like her?

this is her present

http://www.ernestjones.co.uk/webstore/detail/R/5202981/

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  1. Just ask her. You already like her, so really the relationship has already changed. I think she will realize you like her, but tell her anyway. Just be really sweet about it. Tell her that you love spending time with her and really care about her.  


  2. tell her.............

  3. really A BEAUTIFUL GIFT

    she will be a FOOL if she does n't realise

  4. that's a beautiful necklace!! and she is really lucky to have you! but you like her as a friendship way? sorry i didn't get it .. if it is, then i think if you are really close and really good friends she would already know that you like her!

  5. Personally, I would not assume a guy liked me if he got me that for my birthday, particularly her 21st, as it is a big deal. I think you should definitely tell her.

    Good luck!

  6. I think you should give her the gift on her birthday, but then wait a few days before telling her how you really feel. there would be nothing worse than you telling her how you feel and her not feeling the same way. this would ruin her birthday and would make things awequade.

    good luck and i think things will work out for the best.  

  7. Buy it & you know how it comes in a jewellery box? Put a pretty note inside it saying 'I like you more than a friend/I love you" or whatever.

    Then it's up to her? (:

  8. Well the bracelets only £30, so she might just think you was being generous..

    Tell her mate, it's the only way..

  9. That's pretty, you should also tell her

  10. Thats a BEAUTIFUL pendant and necklace, and i think that rather than wrap it up and give it to her to open later you should ask her to do it so you can put it on for her.

    This should be clear enough BUT i reccommend that you tell her that you like her and would like to further you relationship, AND TELL HER that if she doesnt feel the same way, you would still like to remain friends as you value her.

    If she does like you (fingers crossed at my end) you may expect her to maybe be a little shy and accept your offer of a date, don expect full on kissing like in the movies!!!

    As for her flatmates i reccommend getting them something a little more solid (my suggestions further down) to show that you are a caring individual and also because if you and the girlie start going out, youre probably going to be seeing alot of the flatmates too.

    Good luck!!

    Flatmates pressies suggestions:

    http://www.asos.com/Asos/Bow-Detail-Brac...

    http://www.asos.com/Asos/Asos-Stretch-Be...

    http://www.asos.com/Asos/Asos-Stretch-Be...

    http://www.asos.com/Asos/Heart-Link-Char...

    http://www.asos.com/Asos/Asos-Coloured-E...

    If these don't already come gift boxed you could get them yourself:

    http://cgi.ebay.co.uk/Earrings-Necklace-...

    x*x

  11. Hi I lived such an experience with my best friend Paul. We were the best friends ever and one day he told me that he likes me and I thought to myself "Why? God, why?" because I didn't see him that way. We didn't speak for 2 weeks- he was my best friend ever and I didn't saw him like a possible lover until he got involve with somebody. then I saw him differently. We are together now since 2004, very happy

  12. tell her.
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