Girls help: too big up top, what to do???

Question

im 13 and i wear either a 38b to a 32c and guys are always throwing stuff down my shirt at school then they like when i bend over and stuff. its so gross and i hate it! and it doesnt make a difference wat i wear.

Answer 1

you can wear a really supportive sports bra and shirts that cover up your breast

Answer 2

well i think it would be important to make those lil idiots start showing and treating you with some respect.but its ok im sure your gonna love it later as long as you dont end up with any back problems  

Answer 3

Get a really supportive bra, don't wear shirts with huge slopes, and kick the **** out of the guys who are immature. Sounds like a plan to me [=

Answer 4

that's really not all that big but you can get a bra that makes them look smaller....the minimizer it actually flattens them to look smaller and less plump, not a good look but if you want them smaller that's the bra for you

Answer 5

i don't really think it matters what you wear. show the guys you don't like what they're doing. yell at them, slap them, tell on them, whatever.

they'll know that you don't like it and they'll stop

Answer 6

1. dont give them the opportunity to get stuff down your shirt. in other words, wear tops that go just above your cleavage. wide neck shirts work well.

2. collared shirts look great unbuttoned; wear a dark colored cami underneath

3. avoid empire waists and babydoll tops

4. try longer shirts (that hit at your hips) and vertical stripes.

5. no horizontal stripes or loud patterns.

6. reach the ground by bending your knees, not your waist, as you would in a mini skirt.

7. if the harassment continues, tell an adult!! this is not just annoying, its illegal.

8. grow your hair just past your bust, layer it, and straighten it. sounds weird, but it will minimize the volume up top in a pretty way.

9. look for bras without padding. tshirt bras and sports bras are great. minimizers are okay too, but they should be worn as a last resort and are very uncomfortable for most, not to mention bulky.

10. dont wear necklaces that hit around your bust.

11. bangels draw the eye down, as do noticable rings.

Answer 7

i went through that too.. i was one of the first to 'develope' and boys will be boys. im sorry.

one thing you can do is try wearing longer shirts without the vneck, like the collar comes to your neck. so NO cleavage. rule #1.

and the length of those shirts will help to minimize the appearance of your chest.

and about bending over.

one thing you can do is pick things up etc from low by kneeling down like you would if you were wearing a miniskirt. by bending your knees without leaning forward.

but the best advice for the stupid boys, just ignore them. boys mature slower. i know its hard to ignore, but keep your cool. theyll grow up... eventually. also the more it seems to annoy you the more they'll want to keep doing it. i've learned if you ignore what they say and let it have no effect on you they'll get bored with it and move on to another 'victim' that will give them the reaction they want.

hope i helped a little :]

Answer 8

how do you go from a 38 to a 32?

Anyway, what you're experiencing is sexual harrassment and you should alert teachers/administrators at the school.  They have a duty to make it stop.  If it doesn't (after you alerted them to the issue) you could sue and make tons of money.  

Answer 9

i feel you girl i have the same pro0blem i am a 36c and guys o0mg.!!

just wear shirts that co0ver yo0ur who0le chest.!

thats what i do0.!

Answer 10

wear a tee shirt that doesnt slope down in the front

or cover ur b***s when u bend over

Answer 11

wear a bra & then a sports bra. it holds them in place better & try wearing a higher cut shirt.