Girls.....how can a shy guy best approach and start canversation with a girl he likes?

Question

all tips will be appreciated

Answer 1

I'm not the king at this so go easy..

A good start would just be to introduce yourself, say, "Hey, I'm so and so." Then you need some kind of an ice breaker, usually a polite comment about something specific they are wearing or their hair will suffice.

Next, and is this really impt:LISTEN TO HER. Make her do most of the talking and listen or at least pretend to listen and pretend that what she's saying is interesting and cool.

Listening is the most impt part I think. Most women hate talking to guys and listen to them blab about their great job or their achievements. If she's interested in you, she'll possibly ask questions back. Keep your answers brief but hopefully unique and intriguing. Hope that helps.

P.S. If you have a secret weapon, try to be subtle about (like mentioning that you're very wealthy or have some sought after position:you're a doctor, an athlete or some other sign of material success).

Answer 2

ask her if she likes smething .. know shes good at it first.. like tennis, then ask if she can teach you.. ppretend you suck

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Answer 3

its all about actually doing it you need to approach and say some thing but it must be in relation to were you are and what your doing, but always know that most girls that are Worth the chase will respond to whatever you say. and

Answer 4

just start slowly by saying hello when you see her, or get your friends to start a convo that you can join in on....

Answer 5

Well, you can start in everyday things you do.  Just talk to ALL women, everywhere.  See what they respond to.  But if your looking for a quick fix, then be more playful than anything.  Tell a joke, make a little fun of her.  LIGHTLY.  Don't call her an ugly pig or something.  Give her a SMALL compliment if you feel your being too much of an ***.  If you compliment her all the time, your just lame, boring, and desperate.

Answer 6

Do more than just be nice and that, you've got to be careful not ending up in a friend trap, express an interest in the way she looks and that straight away.

Answer 7

If you like some1 You should approach her. this is the first thing you can and you should do. no matter how much shy you are.

just go to her and be bold. (boldness is very important).

just start from hi (as every one does) and keep saying what ever comes in your mind (say the right thing). ask her questions. and in qustions you can include some personal question slowly slowly.

know her better and then go for your goal of saying her that you like her.

Answer 8

If you know her than it would probably be easy . If don't and you have classes with her #1 start by asking her 1-2 question about the teacher class work than or  #2 say Hi and than introduce yourself to her than talk about 2-4 things about about school life than start your own conversation after that.

Answer 9

First, find out if she's funny and tells jokes or likes to make the people around her laugh. You do this by observing her for a few days to see when she makes people laugh.  If she's funny, make sure the next day you stand near her when she's making a joke, and laugh when she's saying something funny.  Tell her that you find her humor quite refreshing and witty.  You must tell her in addition to laughing at her jokes because if you don't she might think that you are laughing at her and not at her joke.

Second, say "hi" to her often when you see her and incorporate her name when you address her.  Ask her a question that you know she has an answer to.  For example, if you're at the bookstore and she's just brought a book, ask her how much it costs.  Give her eye contact and sound sweet as you're talking to her.

Get your body in her view as often as possible.  Tell her a joke too, but make sure you call out her name first to get her attention.  Go sit near her when you're doing this to gauge her reaction to your proximity.  Don't worry if she plays it coy at the beginning.  Just be persistant and your effort will pay off.  Just make sure you don't smoke or have tattoos because those might be a turn off for her.  Keep that in mind, and practice good hygiene daily.  That means take a shower, brush your teeth, and chew some mint before you go talk to her.  

Yes, it's that simple.  Don't make it too complicated because simplicity sells!  Say "hi" to her!  Check out her personality and compliment her on it before you compliment her on her physical characteristics.  Girls usually know that you find them physically attractive when you approach them, so please ask for her opinion on things besides focusing solely on her looks alone.  Be a gentleman and offer to help her with something, like help her to study for an exam/quiz.

Answer 10

just start a conversation by saying like wat r u doin on the weekend or somthing simple like that...its a good convo starter and it depends if ur friends ith her or not and how long u've known eachother ...then just ask would she like to do somthing on the weekend or mabye just get if one of your friends to ask her if she likes you and if so just ask her out thats my info hope it works!!

Answer 11

be nice to her..

make her feel special

and just be yourself

hope that helps:-)

Answer 12

the main big step is to approach her and say "Hi how you today?" , she'l probably be like "I'm Fine and yourself?" or she might start the conversation up for the rest of the time you with her, then you move with the groove.... or if she does't start it up for ou then it'l be up to you to start and finish it so you will have to ask her how her day was then ask if she would be interested in going bowling or to a movie with you then if she agrees ask her for her number then you can get to know each other over the phone then the more you talk to her over the phone the less shy you get of her and the more you get to know each other and know whether you are compatible/ right for each other