Girls i need help!!!!!!?

Question

ok im 14, ive only had one boyfriend in my entire life and he dumped me in liek a week.. i hate the way i look i think im like the ugliest thing on the planet, i hate my teeth and i was hoping to get braces before we go back to school but we dot have enough money for them so im going to have to wait till after we start school!! i have friends but i dont really have a BEST friend anymore....i just hate my life. i hate myself i mean i dont ever thnk about suicide or any thing but im just unhappy with my life, i just need some help on how to turn my life around.

besides all that ugliness i have super curly frizzey hair, i just hate the way i look, i always have huge rings under my eyes and im not the skinniest thing in the world, im not fat but im not skinny either!! im really tall and lanky and i suck at all sports, sometimes i feel like i suck at everything!!!

Answer 1

Slow down ...you are 14. This is a very hard time for you.  You need to work on your self esteem ALOT.  Practice looking at your good qualities.  Work out, experiment with make up, make yourself a fun person to be around.  No one wants to be around someone that is negative and down all the time.  You are prob a really attractive girl

Answer 2

Okay wait, from what I read you were with him for a week.

Suck it up, it wasn't a real relationship. You are probably a pretty girl in real life. Look, boys our age switch girlfriends like its going out of style. Honestly, a week is not enough that you should feel terrible. Do you have some at home problems that are bugging you?

Answer 3

Dont hate yourself! youre just going through that tricky stage that you feel nothing is going right and you dont belong. Everything changes at 14 and 15 anyway and no matter how many boyfriends you have, how many friends or best friends you will always have yourself. So dont hate yourself as it will only cause you to become more upset. Looks arent everything trust me! if you concentrate on school then you will get a good job when your older it just seems that your concentrating to much on your appearance, and i know you may think your ugly, theres times i think of my self as ugly, but the only one that can really hurt you is yourself. so thinking you hate yourself just makes it worse and you more unhappy. and if no one wants to be friends with you because of your appearance there not worthy of your friendship anyway! just have your head up high and be your own person, dont straighten your hair because everyone else has straight hair or dont go on a diet because you think your fat, your probably beautiful and even if you dont think you are on the outside you are on the inside, and if no one can notice that then they really are not the sort of people you should be friends with. I know it may seem that this hatred feeling will last forever, trust me it wont, soon enough it will be fine, Your at the peak of puberty so your emotions are going crazy right now just be happy for who you are. i hope everything works for you x  

Answer 4

So your going to give up only after one guy?

Thats crazy and irrational.

Everyone is beautiful on the inside and you are no exception.

If your hair is too curly buy a straightener.

If you weigh too much go on a diet.

If you hate your teeth pull them all out.

lol jk

The point is your life could get worse think about that,

And I suggest going to a councelor.

They are there to help ^_^

Answer 5

first thing first, PICK YOURSELF UP.  Look in the mirror and say I am a beautiful  person. Take it from me. I am 5 FT tall, 165 pds (lol), I have crooked teeth also and thin hair. No I don't complain about my looks. I get up everyday, look in the mirror, brush my teeth and hair and sometimes fix my face. I smile and say that is a beautiful i see today. Its not your looks that matter to some people,its the person inside you. Be that person everyone loves and forget about BOYS finish school and make something of yourself.  best of luck.