Girls! i need help?

Question

my girlfriend (who i have been going out with for i will now) wants to go all the way and i dont know what to do

o ye im 15 shes 15

HELP gregg'

Answer 1

if you're not ready, tell her!

its your choice!

if you dont want to, no one is forcing you, just say no.

Answer 2

DOnt wait..

just tell her that you would rather wait but there are other things you can do to have fun.. s*x is overrated and makes things complicated if she doesnt understand and still nags you about it then you know she isnt good for you i guess it is a good relationship test

Answer 3

If your not ready just tell her im sure she'll understand.

hope it helped.

Answer 4

REMEMBER THIS!!!  The person that you are with first has a special meaning.  It is someone whose face and name will be forever burned into your history.  There are eligious answers to be given here and moral issues, and as a parent, i would yell NOOOOOOOOOO save it!!!  

BUT - Most importantly, if you are considering allowing this person that special place in your memory then they need to be that special - if they are - they will wait unitl you are ready.  No matter if that is tomorrow or ten years from now....

Answer 5

Are you ready?

If not tell her your not ready(just let her know you know)...

Answer 6

tell her ur not ready she shouldn't pressure into doing those kind of things and by the way ur like 1 of the few guys i have herd of that don't want to go all the way i think that is so awesome

Answer 7

Tell her to chill and wait till you both are ready!

Answer 8

If you don't want to just tell her. If she really loves you she won't make you do something you don't want to do. Be strong. Don't get caught up in love and make a decision you will regret. Good luck! = )

Answer 9

Tell her yur not ready. she'll probelly understand.

Answer 10

if she wants to whatever she would be the one who had a chance of having a baby not you, but if your not ready just tell her i dont think she'll really care, and if she dumps you for it shes the idiot and you shouldn't want to date someone like that...  well i hope i helped...

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Answer 11

if your not ready then just tell her, and if you are, just go with the flow and use protection.

Answer 12

tell her you are not ready, or if you do not believe in premarital s*x, say you are saving yourself for marrige, like me!

Answer 13

shes probably just saying that becasue she thinks thats what you want so just tell her you want to wait till marriage and see what she says and if shes dead set on doing it then say your only doing it to make her happy and kind of make a big deal without making her not want to be with you and if she still insist then either give in or break up with her

Answer 14

don't do it.

obviously you are unsure of yourself by posting this question,

so just wait until you are older, & until you are completely ready.

if you do do it, you will end up regretting it.

Answer 15

DON'T ! UNLESS YOU AND YOUR GIRLFRIEND WANTS TO BE ALSO PREGNANT! Keep using your head on your shoulders, do not do something you will regret later in your life! Don't take your carefree lives, non-worrisome lives into a " OH MY GOD WHAT DID WE DO"?Its alot easier saying "NO NOW", than trying to figure out why? when?you still have your lives at 15 yrs. old, just enjoy each other at your young years, w/o having s*x,because after she gets pregnant, you won't be able to take it back, and say no.; it will be too late; please keep using your good sense, don't mess up your life and hers, wait until you are both older (preferrably married to each other),before you make love to each other,because the difference in making love to the (only one you will ever want to make love to---wife),and having s*x, whether you care for this girl or not, is just a one time thing, and that is down-grading to her and you, because she/he is getting what they want from you /or her, with no thought of how you are feeling/ or how she is feeling! So, sir it is still up to up to you to make the decision, but for your life & hers DON'T!jUST ENJOY YOUR LIVES TOGETHER, WITH ALL THE STRINGS THAT WILL NOW BE ATTACHED!

Answer 16

just tell her no. lay it off for awhile, you're not ready for all the responsibility (you aren't--not her).

she might dump you, though.

be proud of yourself. usually guys don't give second thoughts to doing something like this.

Answer 17

Tell her h**l no.

if she ends up preggo you'll be blamed.

Answer 18

tell her you don't want to because even with a condom and birth control she could still get pregnant and you aren't going to take the chance. You're young and have plenty of time to have s*x so just wait. She would regret having s*x when she's a freshman or sophmore later on anyways. Don't feel bad that you're not ready, it's a good thing!