Girls i really need your advice... It's about my ex, does she want me back now or what's the case?

Question

Okay so my girlfriend broke up with me just about two months ago because she said my randomness (wich most say is funny and one of my highlights) emberasses her really bad from time to time and she said its like i don't care that sometimes i bother her (i seriously tried to not emberasse her but she doesn't think i tried at all) which eneded up in her breaking up with me. So after nearly two months of no contact (by the way we're both 16) she texted me today and we started a conversation and shared laughs etc etc. Then the conversation led to her saying she broke up with me because she said i had given up on our relationship (which i can understand why she might have thought that) and we had a lengthy talk about how i was sorry and how i wanted more than anything to be with her and then all of a sudden after it seemed like maybe she wanted me back she just ended the conversation saying in the middle of the talk about us "bye see you on tuesday" (we go back to school on tuesday and we're in the same classes). So was she just trying to have a heart 2 heart with me to be friends or is she considering taking me back or what do you think the conversation including the abrupt ending means? Please help me, i'm having such a hard time through this ordeal and i literally have spent nights crying

Answer 1

she was having a heart to heart with you and to explain where she was coming from.  

In order for you to be with her, you would have to become someone else.  who you are right now is an embarrassment to her.  She's not the girl for you.

sometimes, someone who you like as a friend is not the a good person for you to be BF/GF with but they can be a wonderful friend.  

Your sense of humor is not something she is comfortable with in a more intimate relationship.  She may be able to handle you in small doses but not large extended doses.  And that's not good for a serious relationship.  Just look at this relationship as being nice while it lasted and you've parted good friends.  You'll find someone who will like you just as you are.  You just may need to be patient.

Answer 2

You should just talk to her...! Maybe have a talk about exactly what made her break up with you and you could come to some sort of agreement. It sounds to me as if she's definitely considering taking you back, so...one foot in the door already. Just be really honest with each other. And smile!!

Answer 3

honestly im sorry buddy but it seems to me like she wants to be just friends, but im not positive so take a lot of other ppls answers into consideration. and i would definately just straight up ask her. i kno that i like when guys are totally straight forward so she might appreciate it. if she doesnt want you back move on and hav fun in high school.

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Answer 4

naww poor you!

that is all so confusing,

but i understand it all completely!

i think she couldve been having a heart to heart converstaion with you..

but i also think that she might want you back.

us girls dont really have heart to heart conversations with our ex's unless we still like them or want them back.

well most girls.

maybe you should ask her?

or if your too uncomfortable to ask her if she wants you back, wich i completely understand why.. then just talk to her, and if she's telling you lots of things, and any secrets or personal stuff.. then thats a sign that she likes you.

girls dont just have heart to heart conversations with any guy. when they wna have a heart to heart conversation its with the guy she trusts most.

goodluck hun, hope i helped you! :)

and i hope all goes well! :)

Answer 5

Girls can be complicated, especially at that age. She may not know herself what she wants. I think you should try talking to her about it, in person.

If she cannot give you an answer, it may be time to find someone who appreciates you for who you are.

Good luck.

Answer 6

Are you really 16 or 6 .?

Answer 7

she kinda sounds like a beez who is using you... don't burn any bridges, but wait and see what happens on tuesday and try opening up to other girls who might be a lot nicer toward you

Answer 8

I think that the abrupt ending means that she didnt really want to answer any questions about why it ended and stuff so i dont think she really wants you back but i think you need to talk to her and ask her, get an answer straight from her and then there is no guessing

Answer 9

You poor chicken!

i have a friend who is going through that right now!

I think that shes just trying to get you frustrated and anxious. if she ever finds out that you seriously want here back she is going to be so proud of herself. Act as if everything is fine and don't pay any special attention to her. if she is always trying to strike up a conversation with you or anything like that, then you know she wants you.