Girls - keeping notes from an old ex, burn them or keep them?

Question

He was a sweet guy, we were in high school. went out on a group date, walked to classes together, ate lunch together, got eachother presents on holiday or birthdays. it lasted for a school year and a half. but he rudely dumped me over a phone to go out with my friend. I still have all the notes he wrote me inbetween classes, and the stories he wrote. (he writes short stories and draws pictures) I even had a necklace/bookmark he made me for my birthday with a piece of chisled amber tied to it. so should I dump the stuff cause of how he treated me?

Answer 1

hiya me n my partner were both in a 4 year relationship untill we met each other and we both ahd letters photo and all sprts of stuff from are previous relatiopnship so we talked about it and we decided 2 burn them 2gether and start a fresh start which it wat i think u shold do soon as u do it it helps as u no that was the pass and its gone look 4ward 2 the future

Answer 2

Its up to you if you want to keep them or burn them. I'm way out of high school now, but I kept most of my old love letters until I met the man I planned on marrying. Then I tossed them, of course. But if you stick them all in an old shoe box or something, and take them out years from now to read, it might be fun to reminisce about the past.  

Answer 3

I can only speak for myself, but I can tell you from experience that getting rid of the remnants of past relationships can be very freeing and quite cleansing even.  Keeping things around and holding on to articles that remind you past relationships just holds you back.  Let your memories be enough of a reminder.

Answer 4

chuck them away theyr just reminding you of him  

Answer 5

rip them up, then recycle them. or use it for the fire place when winter comes.

Answer 6

hmm... you should  burn them it not like they matter anymore.

Answer 7

I SAY U GET RID OF ALL THE STUFF BCUZ FOR HIM TO GO WITH UR FRIEND IS DIRTY. HE WAS A FAKE. GET RID OF THE STUFF U DONT NEED THAT IN UR LYFE HIS MEROMY IN UR HEAD BOUT HIM SHOUD BE HOW DIRTY HE IS TO PLAY U LIKE THAT