Girls only please? I need a bra, and my mom isnt fond of that idea...

Question

I am not gonna say my age but I know lots of girls my age wear one, all my friends wear one, I don't even wear a training bra, I wear camis, and I am seriously sweating during the summer too, I gave my mom a small hint when we went shopping for middle school(you kinda know my age now), and said' Hey mom, can get this? *I help up a bra* I think I should get one like this because the cami's I have are making me sweat a lot" and my mom said "Well, I think you should wait until your fourteen, because these look a bit more mature than you need" and their were sizes that fit me, and for people younger... what do I do?

Answer 1

tell her that your really embarrassed to go to school like that. just say that everyone your age wear one because they were embarrassed too.

Answer 2

whattttt!!!!!!

no bra at like what 12 or 13!!!!

i started wearing one in 5 grade!

Answer 3

hmm just talk to your mom

let her know how much you really need this maybe she will come around.

and if not then if you are allowed to go shopping by yourself like with your friends then buy one then and just dont let her know about it

Answer 4

Ok. I'm guessing you're going to 6th grade and first you can talk your mom into buying you a cami with a bra sewed in I used a lot of those when I was in 4th because I started using bras in like 5th. Then you can wear sports bras and then no under wire and un-padded bras and then wired and padded bras. I hope that helps!

Answer 5

wear sports bras

Answer 6

It doesn't matter if other girls younger than you are wearing the same size or larger, it only matters what is best for you right now.  Some girls are much smaller then others at that age.  If you really do need a bra, and not just camis any more, then you need to convince her of that.  But if she thinks you don't need one yet, then you probably don't.  Moms can usually tell when their daughters are ready for that next step.  Try sports bras that don't have any type of cup or anything at all.  They won't make you sweat so much.  That's what I used as my first 'training' bra.

Answer 7

14 jeesh!!

you definentley need 1 before that.

Answer 8

Was it a padded bra? If your going into 6th grade (6th grade is middle school were I live , you might not need it unless you are um, grown. When I was in 6th grade I had these bras that looked just like a padded bra but it wasn't. I don't remember were I got it. I think target. But those worked really well until I needed a padded one. So next time you are shopping with you mom, look for some that aren't padded and see if she lets you get them.

Hope I helped and good luck in middle school!

Answer 9

you should definitely talk to your mom about this, especially if you think you need one.  try talking to her at home, not in the store.  she'll probably listen more then, too.  no girl needs to wait until she's 14.  i started wearing training bras when i was 10.

Answer 10

say you need one.

even if you have itty bitty b***s[like me, haha]

you still feel it jiggling, and it's not good.

she needs a reality check for sure and needs to stop holding you back.

if nothing else, go shopping with your friends :]

Answer 11

Talk to your Mom and say that you need some and that it is uncomfortable to not wear one. Or next time your shopping somewhere add some bra's to your everything you have but make sure they'll fit. Make sure you tell your mom that you are maturing and that you do need one as you are growing. She should understand after you talk to her.  

Answer 12

http://www.living-with-small-a-cup-breas...

for parents: http://www.living-with-small-a-cup-breas...

Answer 13

Just call up a friend and ask to go shopping. Just make sure your mother doesnt tag along... Then while at the mall get a bra that fits you.

Easy as that!  :)

Answer 14

WHAT?! talk about a parent who cant let go.

a bra at that age [ if ur in middle school ] is NEEDED! u need to talk to someone else..someone who might understand more then ur mom. thats terrible.

goodluck

Answer 15

explain to her that u really do need it

because they're gonna b times that a bra is what's needed for the outfit ur wearing

& talk 2 her about just a normal cup bra no padding(maybe that's what u showed her so maybe that's y u said no)

i know my mom was like that when i needed one when i was younger

NO PADDING is what she said not even a bit lol

but if she stills says no then listen 2 her

because she's just gonna get mad

oh & another idea is maybe using a sister's hammy down or something

well hope that helped

=D

Answer 16

just buy one when you go shopping with your friends it might cause a fight but at least you will be happy and not to self conscious. also in middle school you change 4 gym u don't want people seeing you do u?

Answer 17

maybe the bra you picked up was a little mature, after all you don't want to go straight into massive padded s**y bras. if i were you just go out and buy a bra when your with your friends. don't go for a padded one, just go for a plain light one at first. your mum will soon get used to the idea, as long as you introduce it slowly and don't go for ones which are too mature for you.

if it helps i went through a similar stage when i was about 12, and i just went out and bought one a basic one, and then my mum eventually went and got me some more like the one i had bought.

goodd luck

Answer 18

Just go out and buy one on your own

its not like you want it

you need it

my friends mom was the same way when she

first had to get a bra , her grandparents ended up taking

her to get some  

Answer 19

just wear a sports bra....but if u have b***s then buy one urself thats what i wud do....:]]

Answer 20

Hey I'm roughly about your age i think i wear a bra mainly because i need one and also because i think it is only right that a girl our age should why don't you just sit down with your mum and discuss this idea as it also depends on what your mum thinks not just ppl off of the computer so i hope i have helped.

Answer 21

even if u r flat you shouldnt wait till u r 14. go shopping with your friends and buy one by the time your mom finds out she should understand how much u want/needed to wear one.

Answer 22

omg then next time you are with a friends go to the mall and buy one your self and i started wearing one in the begging of fith grade with was like 3 or 4 years ago and if you buy one then go to victoria's secret !!!!  

Answer 23

your a kid.

ohh emm gee. do what your mom says.

"MOMS KNOW BEST"

if you b***s looks big then tell her you extremly need it.

there are lot of reasons why girls wear bras not just for decoration.

so search for ideas.