Girls only please? guyfriend over girlfriend....problem???

Question

why do girls always want a guyfriend to only hangout with but not flirt............... insteat of just hanging out with girlfriends???

Answer 1

All of my best friends are guys... I just don't get along with girls that much. I have friends who are girls but they're a lot of things about them that bother me. I hate how people say my hanging out with a bunch of guys makes me a sl*t, because really i'm just a shy quiet girl who gets along with guys better. It's a bit of an adjustment for boyfriends, thats for sure. My current boyfriend needed to hang out with us for the first couple months, just to see how we interact with each other. I didn't mind...i'm like my guy friends' baby sister.

Answer 2

It's for more variety.

Girls will get tired of hanging out with other girls because the conversations are usually all the same--boys, clothes, other gossip.

Guys can offer a wider range of conversation for the most part. Or at least a conversation that's not about what color nail polish looks the best.

Answer 3

We want guy friends because sometimes we think it can evolve into something more. Or it is less drama with guy friends. It is just nice hanging out with guys because they are low key and always know how to have a killer time and always make you laugh.

Answer 4

because guy friends dont judge, dont create drama, and are really easy to talk to.

Answer 5

Well, maybe we think guys are more reliable as friends, because girls can get really bitchy behind our backs, so we might actually like a friend to rely on, and to answer the no flirting, it could get weird if the guyfriend and the girlfriend started going out and it didn't work, because it would ruin the whole 'friend' relationship.

Answer 6

they're fun to chill with...it's so much different than hanging out with a girl so it's cool, plus you learn a lot more about guys from a best guy friend (yes, im that girl who's obsessed with guys haha)

Answer 7

Most of the time when women are like that they feel that other women are just catty and keep up trouble.  When you have a guy that is a friend and a true friend he usually looks out for you and you don't have to compete with him over looks, date, clothes, jewelery...etc