Girls opinion

Question

There is this girl i know, i kinda like her. she has told me in the past that she has had feelings for me. although she has been dating this kid for a year and they just broke up. she is pretty upset and shes even being rude to me. i really want to move in but she wont even talk to me or anyone else. what should i do to make her like me and not want to go back to her BF?

Answer 1

first thing..

don't try any of the, "you to good for him,your better then that, you can do better"

trust me that's usally a nice thing to hear and all but alot of girls really hate it when guys tell them that after a break up because the guy is making it plan as day he likes her+

second thing...

she may like you and that's why she's being rude to u..because she likes u and has feeling for him still (it will take time for those feelings to go away too)

so when she is being rude it's only because she has a guilt like " omg i just got out of a relationship, and I'm about to get into the drama again" or she just want you to leave her alone...different girls have different ways of handling break-ups!

third thing...

if you "want her"

go up to her and start a conversation about something totally stupid like sports or something so that way she wont think your trying to take advantage of her because just got out of a break up then flirt for a littel-while then walk away..

& you will leave her feeling like:

your a FRIEND FOR NOW!!

she may feel like you will be one of the guys who she will ask for advise for!

and like that if she ever needs someone to make her feel all

pretty and stuff she can always go and flirt with u and not feel like a s**t!  

Answer 2

for now, be there for her, to comfort her, when she is better, u can make ur move

Answer 3

Hey give the girl a break! If she just broke up she's obviously on the rebound and won't get over her boyfriend for a little while. Tell her that you'll always be there for her and you're always available if she ever needs to talk about it. But stop bothering her. Leave her alone for a bit because she can't miss you or learn to want you if you're always around

She needs space right now and the best thing you can do is give that to her and be a good friend.

Answer 4

just dont talk about him, spend time with her and play ur game.

Answer 5

If it was me, I would want my space. So give her space and just make it clear to her that when she wants to talk you are there for her. Don't bug her, or else she will turn to someone else.

Answer 6

if she is classy then she wont go crawling back to a guy she is done with no matter how it hurts, just be nice to her even if she is not to you talk to her be her friend comfort her eventually she will fall into your arms once your there to catch her

Answer 7

what she is doing isnt personal. she is probally very upset. for now try to talk to her and take her places not as bf and gf but as friends. after she feels better maybe yo can talk to her about going farther then friend. but now dont. hope i helped.

Answer 8

I think that you should wait until she calms down, because if you make a move to soon, she'll think your taking advantage of the situation. so just be patient you don't want to ruin your chances.

Answer 9

As others said, comfort her. Have you ever seen those movie clips or read those stories when she's mad, and the guy hugs her, and won't let go no matter how much she struggles? She winds up turning around and hugging him back, crying on his shoulder. Trust me, every girl would want this. She's probably just being rude because at the moment she thinks all guys are c**p... which is almost true... But anyways, steal a trick from the movies, and try and act like you understand her also.

Answer 10

ummm i think you should tell her that you understand her and that if she ever needs anyone to talk to or anything that your always gonna b there , understand that she is probaly very crushed !!!

Answer 11

shes prolly really sad, give her some time shell get over it and comfert her instead of trying to get her to l;ike you cause it will make her feel worse....trust me

Answer 12

tell her what her problem is and you dont deserve to be treated that way..