Girls or guys abuse i need help

Question

when i was 6 years old i was sexually abused by my grandfather. recently i was having flash backs but in the flash backs i was being raped do you think i am just thinking of it or do you think it acually happend?

Answer 1

omigosh im so sorry. :(

Answer 2

well think deep in thought..

did it really happen or is your mind playing tricks?

it is easy to blame him, you have that right..

Answer 3

we don't know, if he abused you he may have or you may have played it up in your mind and convinced yourself it actually happened, people do that a lot when something bad happens to them, thy convince themselves that someone who did something to them actually ruined them

Answer 4

Its possible. I'm really sorry. That is just horrible[rape]

Answer 5

I dont know how many years ago was this?Id have to know how old you are now. But it is very possible that that could have happend. But most ppl dont have flashbacks of something unless it terrified them earlier on in life. Something must have happend for your mind to think it did. Unless you are filling it full of what ifs. What if he did this or what if he did that or what if!!! I feel bad for you something like that is never good to hear. Im sorry! Hopefully you can get past it and get to some peace of mind.  

Answer 6

well if you were sexually abused by your grandfather its is quiet possible that you could of been raped by him and pushed back that memory there are many memory that people can suppress and a word or something can trigger that memory or something happening. That has happen to me a couple of times my dad strangled me when i was 4 i remember being teased by my sister about it but not the actual image of him doing it or why he even did it in tell i remember the exact words my sister said to me   it was a suppress memory of mine i know why he did it now and have and actually image of him doing it.  

Answer 7

i agree, go to therapy. its possible that you couldve been raped but since you were six you didnt know what it was or how it was different. im very sorry to hear that however. i hope you have nothing to do with him anymore.

Answer 8

Go to therapy

&&

Call the cops

ASAP~

Answer 9

well, i know how u feel. i was raped by my uncle when i was lil so the best thing is to see a therapist. it helps trust me.

Answer 10

Go to therapy.  No Joke, only a licensed therapist can help you sort stuff like this out

Answer 11

I'm sorry this happened to you. Sounds like it's time to get some professional help. If you can work through the issues involved, you'll be opening the door to a better life and better relationships.Good luck :)

Answer 12

The human mind naturally tries to block out traumatic events, so it is very possible that it happened. I'm very sorry that you suffered abuse as a child, and like someone before said it is best to seek help from a professional like a therapist who can understand your situation. The only way to get over something like this is to form a trusting relationship with someone and talk about it. Good luck.