Girls who have a bad/no relationship with their mothers...?

Question

Do you kind of get jealous or even mad when you see other mother and daughters hanging out and laughing with each other or just having a conversation with each other?

When I'm at my girl friend's house and I see them talkin with their moms and their moms even talk to me...nicely. I get kind of mad and a little sad...cause i know ill never be like with my mom. I just think its not fair....I mean if my mother was gonna say to me 18 yrs later "I want to kill you. To bad I dont have a gun." , she might as well have had the abortion she wanted when she found out she was pregnant with me.

Anybody else feel like this?

Answer 1

Probably. recommend u to seek a psychology or a strong-religious elderly who u can trust. =)  

Answer 2

my friend has a really bad relationship with her mom, but i dont think she ever gets jealous from me...........

shes glad she has a friend like me.........

not everyone has everything.............she knows all that i dont have........

me n my mom r really nice.............but still we have our times.............when we fight........

no relationship is completely ok..........

try talkin to ur mom, ask her what makes her ........behave like that with u.........

its always worth tryin...........n its never too late.........

don't b jealous of ur friends.........,if their moms r nice to u , get the love from them..........and be happy..............

Answer 3

ugh, i feel the same way except with my dad...well kinda both my parents. i just spent the summer with my cousin and her mom and her sit on the couch and cuddle! she is 15! ugh it makes me sick

but yeah my best friend is so close to her dad, he really is awesome. he treats me as if im his daughter, kisses my forhead goodnight, high fives (please, its not creepy) and has only known me for 5 years. my dad on the other hand, told me last night i wasnt his daughterand im pretty much dead to him.

so yeah i think its a normal thing. i would die to have the type of relationship some people have with there parents.

yet i feel kinda happy cause it motivates me to be the best parent i can...just in spite of my own

Answer 4

definatley! My mom told me when i was about 5 or so that when I was born, she really wanted to drop me in the waiste can beside her hospital bed because i was so incredibly ugly. i was born with a black eye from doc's forsups and i had a pointed head and long strange black hair that stuck straight up. she said she never wanted a girl anyway. She was suprised i was a girl she said she knew right then that she was'nt going to get along with me. When i was 2 she divorsed my dad and married a new guy who had 4 nasty bucktoothed teenage boys one of which molested me 4 two years. when she found out she was indifferent until my new dad insisted that he be punnished so she then finally anounced his fate; no T.V. for 2 whole weeks.So yes, i do share with you your pain, but as for me it makes me feel a whole lot worse not better, that others suffer the way i do so i dont tell any one about it. i do feel better letting u know though that you're not the only one...And women who dont love,protect and consider their babies total gifts from God should be shot on sight for they are a particularly dispicable strain of female species which you and I denounce wholeheartedly.....whew!O.K.bye

Answer 5

Please dont feel this way. I have sometimes bad times with my mom due to some reasons. But this thing shouldn't affect your relationship with your mom. it's not yet to late for you to reconcile with your mom. See? it is so nice to see that other girls hang out with their mom, wouldn't you wanted to be that way too.

talk to your mom and ask her, why you both are like this? try to communicate with her. Daughters should be humble enough to ask  moms why they have that kind of relationship. I'm sure, when you talk to your mom and discuss her what you really feel, Things goin to change. Believe me.

Cheers!

Answer 6

you know...?i always hope  i can take care of my mom every time and for all my life. it because my dad was die when i should go for study at 6 years ago..and i take care for him before he 'go',and i hope i can do same with my mom now...but,i was live far from her for thousand mile..and just can hear her voice sometime only because  i'm very busy with my work.i hope you can think again about what you say..(^^,)