Girly Voice and I am a male please help!!?

Question

I am a 14 year old and i am going into high school and in middle school everyone made fun of me and i think that it is going to be worse! So please help me I dont know how to stick up for myself and i need to start!! What do i say when people make fun of my voice??

Thank you so much!!

Answer 1

i dealt with this problem as well...i went about it by making friends with everyone, that way i didn't have to pick any fights...sometimes you just have to be friendly and cool with everyone, but thats just the kind of person i am...don't worry because soon enough your voice will change and you'll have to worry about it cracking..haha

us late bloomers have to stick together...my voice is just becoming normal, i turned 16 two months ago

Answer 2

Hey! I had the exact same problem when I was that age (four years ago) too. When I would answer the phone people thought that I was my mom. People made fun of me too and I just ignored it. My voice eventually got deeper and so will yours. Don't worry about it!

Answer 3

no you are not a male...ur a s*****e!!!!!wooohooooo

Answer 4

You're voice has been going thru the normal changes.  If you concentrate - you can practice speaking in a lower octave to yourself in a mirror - keep practicing - then once that's conquered - go to one more lower octave.   Once you've gone thru puberty - your voice will settle down to a lower pitch, more than likely, anyway.   All guys go thru it to some extent.  Some more than others.  That's why some guys act anti-social - they won't talk much because their voice cracks when they do.

Answer 5

When your balls drop, your voice will drop.

Just wait until your older

Answer 6

bro just dont let it get to you just admit to them because they wont bother you when they know it dosent get to you.

Answer 7

Well I'm not sure if this is true, but usually, the bigger the balls you have, the deeper the voice.... Anyway... I wouldn't worry about it... You are a straight male, correct?

Answer 8

My best friend when I was growing up would always try to talk really low and eventually it did change. Mostly, I believe, because he finished going through puberty. If your parents have the money to do so, tell them you want vocal lessons, and the vocal teacher can instruct you in developing your voice. You have to say that you want your voice to be deeper. The other part is your vocal chords and adams apple (larnyx) dictate to some extent the range you have. You are still going through puberty and no doubt have a lot of growing in the areas that effect your voice yet to do.

In "sticking up for yourself," try to keep in mind that someone who makes fun of someone for something they have no control over is known also in adult society as ignorant, prejudiced, immature, misinformed, bigoted, discriminatory, and a number of other terms that escape me presently.

So continue to increase your vocabulary (among other things you should be doing while in school rather than being concerned with idiots), and in the meanwhile, if someone says anything to you, you can shoot back at them with something witty. Sometimes a person will learn to quote something from a movie and everyone starts to think it's funny cause it makes the other person stand there dumbfounded, not knowing what to say back whatsoever. Learn to quote Yoda, for example. Tell the other person that they are headed down the path to the dark side. Especially if you can sound exactly like Yoda. That may sound silly, but I hope you get the idea. Find your own witicism, but fight back the ignorance with what you have to fight with, be it wits, or humor or just information.

Answer 9

Punch one in the face super hard, it'll send a message to the others. Or you can wait until your voice matures, just be thankful you don't have xbox live, the people their made fun of my voice for 2 years.

Answer 10

as you get older, your girly voice will fade out as a more grizzly and husky voice comes in