Giving my child up for adoption?

Question

i just found out im pregnant....i dont want to get an abortion..but then again i know i cant give my unborn child what she/he will need...im still with my babys father and he dosent want me to get an abortion....he said if anything we will end up giving it up for adoption....how do i go about finding a family for my child?...i would like to be able to chose the family myself....and also my baby will be mixed...im 100% puertorican and my babys father is irish/italian...do people feel different about adopting a mixed baby?

Answer 1

hello,brave mom.god bless you,and that wonderful baby.my husband and i would love to have a beautiful mixed baby.our family is colorful.we have white,hispanic,black,all colors going on.All a Baby needs is Love.And if you would like to talk,call me.573-452-2761.anytime.if you just need someone to talk to,thats fine too.good-luck..

Answer 2

hello,brave mom.god bless you,and that wonderful baby.my husband and i would love to have a beautiful mixed baby.our family is colorful.we have white,hispanic,black,all colors going on.All a Baby needs is Love.And if you would like to talk,call me.573-452-2761.anytime.if you just need someone to talk to,thats fine too.good-luck..

Answer 3

You are so brave! I am so glad you are not thinking of abortion:) I have known so many people that have been involved in adoption whether it be they adopted or have been adopted, it is a beautiful process, and you are an angel for considering it for your baby. My husband and I are already certified and are just waiting for a call, we have wanted to adopt for years and we are ready to give you rbaby the world, security, happiness, and unconditional love! Please call 877-897-2229 or email [e-mail], and we do not care if your baby is green!!! A baby is a blessing! Please call Tammy & Kevin:)

Answer 4

I am part Hispanic and was given up for adoption when I was an infant.  It was the most loving and unselfish thing my mother could have ever done for me.  I was given such a gift and my life was forever changed.  I was able to get a college education and be very successful.  My family who adopted me were able to provide me with everything my mother wasn't able to because she was young.

I always knew I was adopted and every day I am so thankful and feel so blessed for the life she allowed me to have.  I can only say that it is a hard thing to do, but I am proof that pure love of a birthmother can open doors for the future for their child.

My husband and I are now in the process of wanting to adopt.  We have an amazing life and I want to give back, what was given to me.  If I can help you in any way please let me know.  I wish you the very best and if you ever want to talk you can contact me at [e-mail]

Answer 5

Hi, What a scary position you must be in right now.  I am so glad to hear that you are not aborting your baby but thinking about keeping him/her or giving him/her up for adoption.  I know it must be a very hard choice for you and your boyfriend to make.  It takes a lot of honesty and guts to be able to say "we can not provide for this child ourselves in the way we want to and need to". It also takes a lot of courage to give your baby up for adoption.  It is a very unselfish thing on your part - to think of the child first in this way!  

It does not matter what race your baby is, many, many couples would love to adopt him/her.  My husband and I have been researching adoption right now and I know it makes no difference to us what the babies race is.  We just want a child that we can love and give a good home too.  Anyways...in our research on adoption we have come across many good agencies that I could recommend to you.  I do not know where you live, if you are in the U.S. Adoption Law Network is great, Bethany Christian Services and also Lutheran Social Services.  These agencies not only help you find a family to adopt your child but they also help you with your doubts, questions, and financial needs if necessary. You could also just google your city for adoption agencies because there are a lot of good private agencies out there depending upon where you live.

Adoption is a big step.  I encourage you and your boyfriend to really think long and hard about what you want to do.  I know if you give your baby up there will not be a day that goes by that you will not think of him/her.  However, it is much more reassuring to know your child is with a loving family than not alive at all due to killing him/her by abortion.  You can do what is called an open adoption if you so wish.  You can receive photos, updates and even visit with your child.  

I am praying for you and your boyfriend as you make this huge decision in your life.  If you have any questions please feel free to contact me at [e-mail].  
Good Luck and God Bless

Answer 6

no people shouldnt feel different about is. especialy ones like me who can not have babies i would love to talk with you about adopting your baby please contace me [e-mail]

Answer 7

If you would like to contact me my husband and I would love to adopt your baby, we can talk more through e-mail or a phone call....  [e-mail]  God's Blessings on your day