Giving up on having kids.?

Question

i am a 23 year old women married to a 32 year old who has one child already i lost my baby last year and trying to have another one and cant seem to get pregnant after my first baby died does anyone have a suggestion on how to speed up the process and is there an over the counter fertility pills?

Answer 1

You are still young to want to just give up:)  I know many women that tried for over 10 years.  Just when they started to doubt ever having a child, they got pregnant.  One of the ladies is 36 years old right now and due in Nov.

Answer 2

No, there's no OTC fertility pills.  Take prenatal vitamins now, keep your body in good physical health, get checkups from the doctor (health clinics will do them too, as well as family planning), and keep your stress levels down.

My condolences on your loss of a child.  I've been there, and you need to give yourself time to grieve.  I'm also a Christian, and a prayer might help too, so here's one for you.  Good luck!

Answer 3

no, nothing over the counter is safe, don't do it...

you'll only have a miscarriage and end up with another broken heart.... Wait it out, let time take its course you're both young, focus on something else... If you still really want a kid, the go see an ob/gyn who also treats fertility issues, it's safer and they'll take good care of you so that you don't have a miscarriage again.. Best of luck!

Answer 4

try that new test by first response

It tells you when the best time to get pregnant is.

If that dosent work try to talk to your doctor about invitro fertilization. It is not that expensive anymore

Answer 5

you need to get to doctor and get help if you want another one. you can't do this by yourself. take care.

Answer 6

Sorry I don't know about that but, if you can't have kids you should adopt one. You can love them just the same and there are so many orphans who need someone to love them and support them.

Good Luck

Answer 7

There is a light at the end of the tunnel.

Just relax, close your eyes and take a deep breath.

Everything in life happens for a reason.

I am very sorry about your loss- i know how you feel. I too lost a baby.

Don't give up- Don't give up just yet- 'till you've reached my point. (4 failed IUI's, 2 failed IVF's and pending FET results)

There are plenty of options out there to achieve your dream of becoming a mommy.

First and foremost- you did get pregnant so that means you can get pregnant again.

You just have to sit tight and buckle your seat belt for the roller coaster ride you are about to embark.

Pay a visit to an Infertility Specialist and see how they can help you.

Just be hopeful- there is always a light at the end of the tunnel.

Baby dust to you and me. Good luck and Take care.

Answer 8

you're stronger than that. keep trying. baby dust.....

Answer 9

i dont know maybe adopt a baby or have another one

Answer 10

don't give up there are plenty of other options if you or your spouse has fertility issues but try going to a doctor its your best bet but please dont abandon this you are still young and it gives you something to live for