Go in the Army make a new life or stay put no job n a spoken 4 partner that mite b ready in 5 yr

Question

Always wanted to go into the army i have the chance to go as long as i train i have a kinda partner but is not always there i love him to bits n am afraid that if i follow my dream of going into the army that i will loose him forever he says he will be there and maybe in 5 yrs time he will be ready to commit and maybe start a family which is also something i want he is everything i want in a partner no faults at all what do i do i have to make a choice between 2 dreams and i cant decide help me

Answer 1

Join the army and pursue that dream. If that person is asking you to wait for 5 years to commit, then you can also ask him to wait for you as well. Plus, in 5 years, you can pursue your dream and that person.

Answer 2

follow your dream. He says he can't commit now, and guess what, maybe in 5 yrs from now, he will say the same thing. If it ws meant to be, he will be there for you when you are done. Don't let your dreams slip away because of the "maybes" follow them while you can.

God Bless you for wanting to serve your country.