Go to ex bfs wedding???

Question

my ex bf is getting married. i am invited to the wedding, but probably only because my new bf is my exs brother. should we go? they dont really like eachother, but tolerate eachother for the fam.

Answer 1

Oh geez, don't go. Your boyfriend should since it's his brother but not you. Save the drama.

Answer 2

NO THAT SOUNDS AKWARD BUT I YOU GUYS ARE ON GOOD TERMS GO 4 IT!

Answer 3

yes

Answer 4

No...

Answer 5

Yeah I would say if he made the effort to send the invite then you both should go. Eventually the past is just the past.

Answer 6

1st of all you shouldn't have got with his bro, 2nd of all you 2 should go 2 show that despite all the flaws, you care about eachother.

Answer 7

Just skip the wedding and go to Jerry Springer!!

Answer 8

I wouldn't go  

Answer 9

Put yourself in the brides' position...would you want your future husbands's ex girlfriend there??

'Nuff said...

Answer 10

If he invited you guys, then maybe he wants to put the past behind him and concentrate on the future.

Answer 11

Save yourself!  Don't go.  

Answer 12

Please do not go. Tell your bf to go wish his brother well and that will also make his parents happy. Also the bride does not want a ex there. You go do something else with your friends have a good time. Why in the heck do you have the brother as a bf is very awkward...

Answer 13

Go, but slip out early. It sounds like too much of a hassle there.

Answer 14

I would send them a lovely card thanking them for inviting me, but not attend. That situation is just ripe with drama potential.  

Answer 15

For the sake of your new relationship, I would have to say yes go to the wedding.  Sooner or later you will have to get along with him.  He maybe your brother-in-law one day. GOOD LUCK!!

Answer 16

I wouldn't go....but, that's me why would you go?  What would you get out of or what would your  boyfriend get out of it?  It could cause a fight and you wouldn't want that!

I wish you the best of luck!

Married 11 years and 3 children

Answer 17

His girlgriend doesn't like you, so that's one vote against. Her vote is worth 100 against my vote. I can't vote for you because I don't know if you girls are going to be OK or get drunk and fight and then your boyfriends jump in and then the cops come and start beating on the guys and everybody hates you for it, or not. If you don't have anyone close to you who will tell you honestly how everyone will behave, don't trust the situation. If the baby isn't his why don't you feel sure about it? I think you're being set up. Go to the movies and have real fun instead. Don't have any more children until you settle down- that's better for the children.