Going on Holiday and have a little problem?

Question

I am wanting to go on Holiday in September with my fiance. He was all for it when we talked about it bit now lately he seems to not want to go. He told me that he hates going abroad because its to hot, he prefers to go on caravan holidays in this country but i've been on lots of them with him and would just love to go abroad for some sunshine?

I don't want to go on my own and love for him to come with me. He said he would come but i think that once we get there we will just argue because he won't be happy.

What do u think i should do?

Thanks for helping

Answer 1

why not try and go somewhere abroad that is not super super hot? or you could rent a caravan and go just to france or something?

Answer 2

I know what you mean, why last week I went and got groceries with my wife. It was super , with the sunshine and kids ... wait, what does abroad mean ?  Get a tent , some  beer, firewood and camp in the backyard .  Get a sitter, get drunk, and get it on like two crazy monkeys !!!  Life is good .                                ANDY ; )

Answer 3

Ask him what the real problem is!

It may be that he is afraid to fly or can't afford it and I'm sure you'd understand those explanations.

If it just that he doesn't want to go abroad really, then go with a friend and enjoy it, don't worry about the impending relationship kiss-off until after you get back.

If he unwilling to ever go abroad....can you really and honestly put up with that?

Answer 4

Only the two of you can decide that.

BUT....if you are likely to argue over such trivia, maybe it is time to call it a day altogether.