Going <span title="crazy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?">crazy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!...</span>

Question

i feel i am loosing my mind so my half brother living in another state got into trouble big time. i just started have real contact with my dad after 26 years (did not see each other) and now because of this i feel like i'm loosing my dad all over again. he has lost his drive just seems to be in a big hole i don't really know what to do to help him out and then there is the distance 8 hours flight so all we have is the phone

any tips what should i do

Answer 1

There is an ole saying out there.  You cannot help someone else unless you help yourself first.  It sounds like you are extremely lonely, lost and frustrated with life.  YOU have to help and find YOU before you can help dad, half-brother or anybody.  That is sometimes difficult.  The distance between you and dad may be a relationship that was not meant to be.  It sounds ole cliche, but leave it in gods hands, but move on with your life, keep yourself busy find a life for yourself and let everything else run it&#039;s course.  Good luck

Answer 2

yeah I do a answer to your question if your so worried about him then move up there with him or have him move in with you or you can send him some money to help him out don&#039;t think your loosing him till he dont want to talk to you any more ok so just chill out and hey the only thing you can do about your half brother is write him and just tell him that it will be over before he know ok