Going to a theme park for my birthday....only allowed 1 friend?

Question

Hi,

It's my birthday on July 27th, I will be 16, and I've decided I'm going to a theme park. Problem is I'm only allowed 1 friend. I've got 2 best-best-best friends who are more like family than anything. How do I choose? 1 of them I have so much more fun with, the other I don't have as much fun with. I know that the second friend would be hurt alot more if I didn't take her though, but you see she hates theme parks. The first friend love theme parks. Who do I take? Personally want to take the first friend because we will have a better time, but my other friend would be hurt alot more if I didn't take her. Make sense? It's complicated, I know.

Anyway, who do you think I should take. To make it easier the first friend is S, the second is L. S, I have a better time with, L, not so much.

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Answer 1

just take friend s to the theme park. u will have a better time cuz she'll be having fun. just tell her to not tell friend L about it.

Answer 2

Explain to your parents that your having a hard time choosing because your really close to both of your friends. Ask if you can bring both.

If that doesn't work. Id pick S because you said that you would have a better time with her and that she loves theme parks. L doesn't like them so you don't want to be with her on your bday if shes not going to want to ride the rides or have fun.

Explain to the person that you don't pick that you were only allowed to choose one friend and that next time they can come. If your friends are your age they should be able to understand that you cant be the "chosen" one.

Good Luck and Have fun.

Answer 3

I would pick S. She would enjoy that park the best and therefor would allow you to enjoy the park the best. L would just drag you down while there. But so you dont hurt L's feelings so much, maybe have a sleep over with her one day just the two of ya and catch a movie or do something that you know she would like! That way the both can do something they like with you and no one feels left out!

Happy early b-day and hope this helps! :)

Answer 4

go with the one whos more fun but dont rub it in the other ones face

have a sleepover that night with the other or go to the cinemas or iceskatin ?

(:

Answer 5

take s and then invite l the next weekend or so for a sleepover

good luck

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Answer 6

It's your birthday, so you should take whoever you feel you would have the best time with.  

If you take "L" she's probably not going to have a good time, because she doesn't like theme parks, and that will cause you to have a bad time as well.

Another possibility would be to explain the situation to your mom.  Maybe if she understand that you'd really like to have BOTH of your best friends with you for your birthday celebration, she will agree to let them both go.

But most importantly, have fun...it's your birthday!

Answer 7

bring the first

Answer 8

I've had the same problem before. I'd say you should take the one you really want to, S, and explain to the friend which is L that she doesn't seem to like amuzment parks and your really sorry but you choose S because L won't have such a great time. I've been to amuzment parks where this friend wouldn't go on a rollar coaster, this friend didn't like water rides, this friend hated the other rides! I ended up having a bad time and so did they. So I'd take S because it is your B-Day and you should get to live it up! So I say go ahead!

Answer 9

Maybe after the theme park, get together with your other bestfriend!

anyhow, i've been in the same situation. (:

I took the person who I thought needed it most, like who hadn't been out much in the past month, or was going through a tough time. If you love both equally, make sure they know. Take the person your heart is telling you, XD

If your second friend gets upset, do something special with her another time, without the other, if  it really makes it up to her. If she gets upset, then really, tell her why you didn't invite her, say that she knows that she didnt like theme parks so you took the first friend. and tell her that you shall do something special like soon (and actually follow through XD)

Answer 10

I would personally take S, she would have more fun. Do something special with L too, like go to the mall out to diner then the movies, something for you too [:

Answer 11

just tell you 2nd friend that it would be better for bring along the friend, but tell her that it was a hard decision and does not intend to hurt her feelings.

Answer 12

I would actually not take either one of them and just go with family. Not have to worry about feelings getting hurt. Why don't you explain this to your parents? Maybe they will understand and let you take two. Say they will pay for their own tickets, food, drinks, etc. I would choose L.