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Question

i love this man, yes he,s married , and so am i but the main thing he,s my brother _in_law, i know it,s wrong, i to love him but i really love him , he don't even know it, he can do better that her even if she,s my sister she isn't or loving toward,s him , i love him i really need advice

Answer 1

don't. do it it,s a sin even if she cheated on him after all, he,s still your brother in law don't stoop that low , she pay in time for her being a adulteress,  

Answer 2

Don't even go there. That's a sin you don't want to  try to explain to God. Its wrong in so many ways. Be strong, ask God to take your desire for this man away.

Answer 3

Don't even think about this. Leave it alone. You know that this is wrong. Look at yourself in the mirror and be completely true to yourself. Mistakes do happen in life, but this is a mistake that is waiting to happen. You still have the power to turn away. Do the right thing.

Answer 4

wow. this is a tough one. do you love your husband? if you really love this other man and pursue him you risk losing your husband and your sister. are you ready for the consequences? also be ready that if you pursue him he might go for it for s*x but stay with your sister after all, in which case you will also not have him either. share your feelings with him but do not have s*x with him until you both get a divorce. he might not be interested in you. also, the way your sister treats him is her own business. maybe he even likes it. that is not a reason to destroy her marriage.

Answer 5

b*tch i f*ckin hate women like you. you are dead wrong sayin sh*t about how you'd be a better woman for your sister's husband. i really don't know how you sleep at night. my advice is to jump off a bridge.

Answer 6

i.t.s a shame,that, you,and,him,have s*x, and oral,stuff, why, do you, go ,with ,him, when , you, have s*x?,

Answer 7

no one will agree with you, you must forget all about him. even your sister is cheater, you will be worse.

guess you are old enough to understand the sequences of what you are intending to do.

find another guy and move on, try to avoid seeing him.

Answer 8

don't even go that way when you stand before god , that wont set well with him read revelation.21. vs. 5...6.. 7... on it there is your answer, don't stoop to her level on lust, where she cheated on him see a minister for advise please.. just don't do what i think you are going to do you would be no better than her my op ion?

Answer 9

Ah, the sh#t could hit the fan here. Be very careful.  If she cheats on him, don't lower yourself to the same standard by cheating.  

Answer 10

just the thought that you are having is the same as cheating on your husband. I despise women like you

Answer 11

How do you know really what he has or hasn't done you are just trying to justify your sick fantasy. Technically your are cheating on your husband by allow your heart and mind to stray so can your sister f*** your husband to. You ought to be ashamed of yourself. (what does the cheating type look like and act like, a lot of people you wouldn't suspect have cheated). He just wouldn't tell you because your his wifes sister guest that means more to him than to you.

Answer 12

don't. please i almost ruined my life over a tramp like you let sleeping dogs lay ok  

Answer 13

Girl I would not touch this with a ten foot pole. Girl what are you thinking of. Do you know what would happen if you follow through this crazy ideal of being with your sisters husband. You would ruin allot of lives with this ideal , not mentioning your life as well. You would have to move to the other side of the world, just so that you could not show your face.  

Answer 14

Your sister may have done all these bad things to her husband and you may not think too highly of her because of that but you do need to respect the fact that they're married, let them deal with their issues and stay out of it because it isn't your place to decide who he should and shouldn't be with.

Answer 15

I would think that because you're in your 40's, you would know the answer to this question.

Answer 16

You're living in a fantasy world. Get real. You can't get with your brother in law. Do you want your family to consider you trash for the rest of your life? Or are you just trying to get on Jerry Springer? You're in your 40's? You know better.  

Answer 17

don't do it i ruined my life over a fling and believe me it isn't worth it that i know for a fact , if you have kids , as well her it,s them who gets hurt over it,  

Answer 18

Does he love you back? If not dont say anything