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Got drunk, made a move on a good friend. Ouch. help!?

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We'd been hanging out twice a week and having a lot of fun. I have started to like her, but there's no way she could have known. I've acted the same.We even watched a late night movie at my place the other day. We had fun and nothing happened.

Then I was out of town for a week for work and we partied when I got back. We were hammered. There was some flirting on the dance floor. She even declared that I'm sleeping at her house, then tried to take it back later (by talking about some guy she wants to hook up with).

We went home right after and I made a move on her. Now she's pissed. She's hot and says it happens all the time and she thought I was different. Doesn't want to talk to me anymore. Says she needs "time away from me". I wouldn't have done it if I was sober or even buzzed.

Is the friendship ruined? Yes I can be just friends with her. What do I do?

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  1. No, the friendship is not ruined because luckily you did it while you were "hammered." Just call her to apologize and blame it on the booze. Make a little joke out of it. Say, you feel bad and want to take her out to lunch not dinner to make up for it. But, the bad news is she obviously doesnt like her and sees you as a friend. So, if you are sure you are not going to hit on her or anything of that nature, then like I said call to apologize. The friendship will feel a little awkward at first but dont worry as long as you dont do anything like flirt then the friendship will go back to normal in no time.


  2. man give your self a brak even if this girl won't....she tells you your sleeping at her house then she wants to take it back ..but she won't give you some slack on something she won't let you take back........females will complain if guys don't make any moves and they complain when guys do.....start looking for a more honest girl and if this one stay friends fine ..if not fine too...don't get all kiss azz with her.

  3. email her saying ur sorry, u were messed up and u didnt mean it and u regret it a lot and u want to go back to being friends.

  4. give her time- you kinda ruined your image with her-thinks youre 'just like the rest of them' and women know that what stuff you guys try to pull on us  while youre drunk-hit on or a beat-down/confessions or slip-ups- deep inside, you meant it. Call her in a week and ask if shes still mad at you and that youre upset about your stupidity and will make it up to her (and you will!!) What you two did was a little harmless flirting and when she realized what she said about the sleepover, she took it a step too far and tried to take it back. You made a mistake and regretted it, which shows you cares-and hopefully can put this behind you two.

  5. DON'T KNOW, I MADE TO SAME MISTAKE, SPENDING TO MUCH TIME WITH MY FRIEND,(MALE), AND WHEN I FINALLY GOT INTO SOMETHING REAL, WITH SOMEONE ELSE. I MISS HIM, ALOT, I EVEN TOLD MY NEW LOVE I MISS HIM, IT CAN RUIN A RELATIONSHIP, IF ITS NOT GONNA BE REAL, YOU COULD HURT SOMEONE ESLE IN THE PROCESS. KEEP THE FRIENDSHIP, A FRIENDSHIP.

  6. Yeah, that happened to me. Not the exact same situation but I did get with my best friend and I do think it was a mistake. The good thing is, it can be rectified if your friendship was strong enough. But man, first you have to be honest with yourself and her. If you really want her friendship then that's what you have to be..a friend. But if you want those panties then whenever the opportunity arises you might find yourself back in the same situation. Don't set yourself up for failure. If you want it, you have to be honest with her.  

  7. Give her time to come around. Send her one text or ring her once.... if she doesnt respond then the balls in her court.

    I think she will forgive you, i mean you were drunk and stuff so its understandable.

  8. say sorry get something for her that means a lot and say that you don't know what came over you and that being friends with her was great and if you cant see her a again that your losing a great friend.

  9. apologize and tell her you were drunk and didnt mean for it to happen

    make sure you are sincere/genuine and tell her at the right time like wen you are alone
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