Got really drunk at a wedding?

Question

I got really drunk at a wedding and was escorted out by the police. I was going through alot at the time. I don't ever get like this. Do you think i could be an alcoholic. Don't remember much of what happened. Except that my ex of six years was there with a beautiful new girlfriend. To make things worse, i was in the bridal party. I am so embarrassed. Should i go for help.

Answer 1

I would not call you an alcoholic from this one incident. Do you do this often or was it a one time thing? Getting a little carried away from stress and the ex happens sometimes.  

Answer 2

go to AA.

Answer 3

LMAO- aww **** happens- we all do stupid shiat! that's a good one- forget about it- you'll laugh about it later i promise.

Answer 4

NA. We have all been there done that, maybe not at a wedding, but we have all made fools of ourselves. It doesn't mean we are alckies.  

Answer 5

Obviously if it was just that one time, you don't have a problem.  Ask yourself some questions.  Do you drink alone?  Do you drink to get to sleep?  Do you quit work and feel like you need a drink?  If not, then I wouldn't worry about it.  If you are getting close to these traits, start exercising or something.  Drinking is awesome and can be great, but don't overdo it.  Keep it for special occasions.

Answer 6

nope just control your drinking and in time u'll be over the ex

Answer 7

I don't think you need to go get help. If this wasn't the first time it has happened then probably. It sounds as if what set you off was the sight of your ex-beau with another woman. It's normal to maybe take things farther than you should when something like that happens (especially if you were together for an extended period of time) and it would also depend how recent the break up was. If you were allowed time to move on to the fullest it might not have happened but you may have some feelings (not necessarily the same as you did have) towards him and that sight just set you off. It sounds to me like it was just a one time thing but I would apologize to the newlyweds if you haven't already.

Answer 8

Unless you do this kind of thing often, then you were just probably reacting to the ex's new girlfriend. You will probably be the butt of jokes for a while though.

Answer 9

An alcoholic is anyone whose consumption of alcohol is excessive and leads to other problems.  So you have to ask your self is this a pattern or a one time incident.  Even if you only drink twice a year if you drink till you are plastered then you are an alcoholic.  In your case  you definitely had the over consumption and the problems so you need to tread carefully and you need to apologize to the bride and groom and probably never speak to them again.

Answer 10

the combo of a wedding, drinking, an ex w/ a new girl all mixed together and you got drunk.  no, you are not an alcoholic, just mixed up and you will get better..next time, don't drink so much  

Answer 11

If it was your first time to be like that .. no.  If it happens often ... yes.

Time heals all wounds.  It will get better.