Got really drunk last night, molested a girl from my club now im bieng kicked out, need to apologize what to d

Question

before that i would like to state that in no way do i feel my actions are justified. but last night when out with my club from university, got really drunk last night, hit on a ex member who was a senior visiting and molested her.

unfortunately i did not remember the exact details and was not really aware that i was crossing the line. so when given the chance to confess and apologize explain what i happened i failed to do so accordingly. So it sort of looks like i don't see anything wrong with what i did so they decided to send me home it was from the tournament that started. I feel awful because of what i did and how i let every one down see, this could have gone the wrong way and i would have tainted their name i was lucky she was a member of our club or we could have been ******. I don't quite remember what i did and from the sound of it it was pretty bad.

Now I've given everyone this impression of me and i do not know what to do, any advice what can i do to set things right.

Answer 1

You should stop drinking. It's your own fault you got into this situation, so deal with it. So typical of men thinking it's okay to touch women once they have alcohol in them.

Oh and p.s. actually post this in a more accurate section.

Answer 2

you definatly are in deep ****. My advice to you is to go to an AA meeting (you dont have to just tell her that you are) and say that you're trying to fix things so they dont happen again. Another advice to you is, dont let yourself get to that point. Only you know your limit.

So when you get to that point, say to yourself that you're done for the night and if you dont stop that then hey, plain and simple it's going to happen again and you may be in worse shape next time

Answer 3

I would go back to the ppl who gave u the option of apologizing and tell them that the reason u didnt quite apologize before was becuase u dont quite remember ur horrible actions that u did and now that all the pieces seem to be coming together vaguely as they are I realize that I was out of control and I never meant to get like that or in fact do whaT I did, I would like to apologize to her and I'm gonna try and get help so I make sure I never harm someone like that ever again