my grandfather has lung cancer but now it's spread all over his body. we knew there would be no nice way to say it to my sister so my dad came straight out and said "your grandpa is dying and it's only a matter of time before he leaves us". she is VERY emotional and she broke down crying. since i've seen more in my life, these issues don't bother me anymore. my whole life has been filled with nothing but the people i love leaving.
he's our only grandfather (my mom does not consider her "dad" anything to us) but we didn't have a privilage of seeing him that often. the last time i saw him was when i was 10 (that was back in 2000). i talk to him every year as much as possible and he does know what's going on in my life. the reason i didn't get to see him that much was because of my dad. they didn't have a great relationship because my dad constantly got abused (but he was a rebel). finally after many years of silence, my dad was able to become friends again with his father
me and my sister were hoping to see him before he dies but the doctors are only giving him a month at the max. it's too expensive for a trip to California so we can't go visit. since my sister is only 12, she really doesn't understand most of this stuff. what can we do to make her feel better?
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