Grandmother and our son?

Question

My mother has been freaking out about our son. We live in the same town, but we dont see eachother often; and she often blames me and my wife for not being able to see "her baby" i have tried to tell her dozens of times, that we are busy, and she sometimes has to take the initiative to come and see him at our house, but she wont listen. He is about nine months now, and she has been doing this since he was born; even though i have stressed to her that we are not trying to keep her from seeing her grandson, but she gets pissed and wont listen. How can i deal with this? how can i make her see that we are not trying to keep her from seeing our son?

Answer 1

If you give in, she will become obsessed.  Trust me, I am going through it now.  My mother is the exact same way. Stand your ground.