Grief over dad?how to communicate

Answer 1

 I'm not sure how to use this site so I hope this, my belief, gets thru. I feel when a parent dies that their individual personality can stay with you for some time and that as you work out your 'stuff' with them within yourself they become less individual as they merge with a greater universal father/ mother energy. Energy doesn't mean unreal, I feel they are always there to communicate with, yet at times when their being moves from individual toward universal, when we're grieving, there does feel an awful gap, loss and emptiness.My way of looking at it is that my dead dad gradually moves toward being my heavenly father, you could say God and my dead mum moves toward being my earth mother, both of them being there for me. I say believe your voices and feelings and know that the bond between a parent and child is too strong for death to stand between. If you feel you are conversing with your dad, then you are, belief helps it happen, he will always love and never forget you. ash xx