Grind Dance - The Proper Way?

Question

Ok, I am wondering before you grind, do you have to ask the girl for permission, and also, when you move your hips side to side, do you put your hands on her waist and guide her movement as well, or do you move one direction and the girl moves another?

Any help will be great.

Answer 1

1. Dance near a person you want to grind with. If the person takes notice of you, and acknowledges you, approach them and ask if they'd like to dance. Never ask if they'd like to grind. If you know for sure the person is a grinder, assume the correct positions (one person, usually the guy, directly behind the other). If you are unsure, start off with some distance between your hips. If your partner starts getting a little closer, then move the dance up another notch.

   2. Dance with your your hips together. While normally the guy is behind the girl, there are not strict rules saying you can't switch things up. If you're at the front, move your end area around in a pattern at around crotch level of your partner. You're in control. If you're behind someone else, follow her movements. The pelvises can be directly aligned, or slightly off so that one of the rear person's legs is between the front person's legs.

      Ã¢Â€Â¢ If you are the rear dancer, it's best to start with your hands on the person's hips, then move them a bit (like to her waist, or on her stomach) when you get more comfortable. Be cognizant of her body language; most girls do not like dancing with pushy guys.

      Ã¢Â€Â¢ If you're the girl and you are feeling uncomfortable, move your partner's hands back to your hips or waist or wherever you want them. Just because you are grinding does NOT give someone permission to grope you. If you move your partner's hands where you feel more comfortable, and they try to move them back, just stop grinding and walk away from that person.

   3. Join a grinding chain. Sometimes a group of people start grinding together. Usually it's a mix of men and women alternating, or just women. Sometimes two women will "sandwich" a man, and others latch on.

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Answer 2

whatever feels natural.... yes you put your hands on her waist.... and you guys move together.