Grinding! Help!?

Question

I am still in middle school and all the guys grind at our dance parties and it's not really something i feel comfortable with and if you don't your considered 'lame' and all my friends do...and personally its so not classy..what do i do?????

Answer 1

I'm sure that there are guys out there who feel the same as you.  Check the sidelines for anyone sitting around and start a conversation and maybe you'll find one or you can dance with girls.

Answer 2

just tell them it's tacky....it's the truth

Answer 3

don't do it

if you feel uncomforortable..

just tell themm that they are jack assess lol

idk ...tell them its lamee

hopee i helpedd

-krystenn<3

Answer 4

Good for you!  Grinding isn't dancing it's dry humping in public.  Don't be afraid of what others will think.  Maybe convince a few of your friends to take up a swing dancing or line dancing class.

Answer 5

Grindings not classy at all and used by desperate people to get a lay. Ball room dancing and the likes is classy, if you can learn this will definitely impress later in life.

Answer 6

Just don't do it. No1 can make you do something you don't feel comfortable with.

Answer 7

Then don't dance period

Answer 8

if their your friends they won't care. especially somthing as silly as not grinding. just dance wih your friends or by yourself or with a guy. i do both.. cause i don't think grinding is bad its just dancing [but thats my opinion]