Grinding at 13?

Question

so throughout the whole year we have dances and all us 7th graders looked at the 8th graders like: wow S****y much? when they grinded. well me and some of my friends (like 5) were all at a house party yesterday with the "cooler people" of our grade. it was so dead and then we finally started dancing. me and my best friend started like "front grinding" with each other and the guys were like HOLY SHHHH!!!! and then me and my other friend were semi grinding but just like going down to the floor like holding hands and dancing. a guy walked by and was like "d**n DO THAT AGAIN!!!!" do you think this is bad? i mean all of us had a good time in our little line and seriosuly it was innocent dancing. a little flirty but innocent. what do ya think?

Answer 1

for girls your age, its a little S****y to be grinding like that. guys are giving you that attention for the wrong reason. There are ways to dance and still have fun with your friends WITHOUT grinding to the floor. Trsut me, you'll have plenty of time to do that when your muchhhh older. At this age, your giving th wrong impression and acting older than your age.

Answer 2

Yes, it's bad. Learn how to dance.

Answer 3

well i think its a little bad a little weird but its not like killing someone or something like that.i see people doing it all the time at school dances and it bothers me a little but like all ur doing is really moving up and down if u think about it.

Answer 4

Wrong. Yea. Dance is wayyyy better.

Answer 5

Do, its fine. We do it at every dance at age like 12. Back with guys and girls and front with girls. Your fine. Everyine does it.

Answer 6

well im 16 and telling u that yes grinding at 13 is definitely not a good message to send to guys your age. Im older and when i grind i still have to make sure im giving off its just a dance. and hate to tell u but guys are guys and when u do that it xcites them so tone it down until they r able to control it. i mean look at the reactions u got. Holy shhh.  that clearly means it was a lot for them handle. so long story short just wait