Growing apart, move on, talk it out?

Question

I have a friend whom I've know for 7 years now, we've done everything together, we went to Hawaii Several times, other vacations and she is my bestfriend. I feel sadly though now, that I have to let go and move on, my bestfriend doesn't seem to accept my friends. She says she is not jealous, and maybe she isn't, but it feels that EVERY TIME I find a friend, she doesn't like them. I don't want to choose between people, and I feel divided. We have tried to talk this out and we makeup every time, but now I feel that she is doing this purposley trying to make me feel like the victim, when I did not do anything. What shall' I do? Let go, move on? I love her, and of course I am sad.

WE hardly talk anymore and every time we do talk I call her, I feel replaced kind of w/ her other friend that goes to a different school, it seems like she doesn't need me anymore and she seems like now she has a big ego, every thing I do good at she has to kind of bring it down. also, she does this she'll ignore me when walking out of school at the end of the day when i keep saying for here to come and walk with me I know she sees me, I'm confused, and sad....-Marty Jean Baker

Answer 1

i dunt know like if she is a true friend it is worth making all the stops for but if she is just bieng a b***** then forget it b/c a true friend never mistreats a friend like that

Answer 2

I would attempt to talk it out with her, tell her how you're feeling. If things don't change, you can still be good friends even though you don't talk all the time. True friends will be there for you regardless of how often you talk to them.  

Answer 3

Marty sometimes people grow apart. It happens it is sad but it happens frequently. If you value the friendship don't give up. If your best friends doesn't like you new friends maybe you guys can still be friends and just hang out separate. Not everyone is meant to get along with everyone else. I have a female friend that couldn't stand any of my male friends with the exception of one. I simply respected her wishes and tried my best not to bring them around her.  

Answer 4

If she really was your friend, she wouldn't act the way she does.  

Answer 5

Sounds like this friend of yours is limiting you and bringing you down.  As sad as it makes you sometimes people just grow apart.  You should give her the benefit of the doubt and try talking to her.  If that doesn't work than maybe you should just move on and hang out w/your other friends.  If your as good of friends as you think, you'll come back together again.  Good luck to you in all you do and I hope you guys work things out.  Good friends are hard to find.