I'm 28 years old and live with my mom. I love her and she lets me live rent free, but we don't really get along. She tries to control every aspect of my life, and I've squandered most of my youth trying to take care of her emotionally since she divorced my dad when I was 9. I think she has mental problems, and she treats my sister (who has a lot of emotional issues herself) much the same way as me. She's demanded I quit jobs before to take her on vacations I don't want, that I basically become a shut in who never goes out because it disturbs her sleep when I come in late, and even that I break up with nice girls I like. She insists I devote my weekends to her, and no matter what minor inconvenience happens she acts like its the end of the world. Then she blows up and blames me over any minor annoyance in her life. She's always putting me down and making me feel worthelss and incompetent. It's humiliating. Just recently I became financially capable of moving back out on my own, but I worry about hurting her and leaving her all alone when I do. Does anyone have any advice?
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