Grrrr! Why does this have to happen w/ guys? I so want this guy now?

Question

21 years old here. I just came back from the store and there was this hot bagging groceries. As I walked into the aisle we looked into each other's eyes for kind of long. Not a glance or anything. I looked back into his eyes and he was looking in mine. Anyway, then I focused on giving the cashier money and realized I didn't have enough so went back out to my car to get more. When I was heading back in after a couple mins, I noticed the guy was outside of the store doors and looked at me before running back in. I just assumed they had asked him to come and see if I left even though it was only a couple mins. Anyway, when I got back in the cashier bagged my one item and then the guy got it. He handed it to me as we looked into each other's eyes. I said 'thank you' 'he said 'your welcome. have a good one' and I said 'you too.' This is like torturing me because I know how males try to be friendly in the workplace in dealing with customers even when they're str8. h**l, I once had some guy rub my hands in trying to put some product on it in the mall and when I went back and offered him my number, he looked freaked out. I don't know. What should I do? I just thought he was beautiful.

Answer 1

Sometimes when a guy and I lock gazes, I can just..."feel"...the connection.  I can't explain it.  Perhaps that is what you were feeling.

If you start up conversation with him and act interested in him as a person, if he feels likewise I'm sure he will make it more clear.  If he gives you signs of interest, ask him what he is doing after work.

You can never have too many friends.  And you never know when a friendship might turn into romance.

Maybe your hormones say "right now!", but real, human relatiionships take time.

Answer 2

It sounds like he showed more than a passing interest.  Next time you see him, go through his line, and make a joke about how embarrassing it was to be short on money, and that you made sure you brought plenty this time.  Thank him for having been so nice about it.  See if he responds with small talk or other signs of interest.  Turn your embarrassing moment into a conversation-starter.    

Answer 3

LOLLL I'm a bagger and I do the same thing to customers I find hot.

We have to treat everyone the same, no matter how hot we find them or how annoying they are.

My honest suggestion, and it worked in the past, keep coming back and go through his line and make casual conversation.  

Answer 4

Hm... maybe this guy isn't into you. He could possibly be just a friendly person or maybe he does like you..It almost sounds like my situation. I really dont know what to tell u..Did u give him your number

Answer 5

I know I have had the same problem  going into grocery stores and seeing nice looking male baggers. Well I  go home and I .  

Answer 6

i say this guy might have an intrest in you.

strat a convo.

you might find something out.