Guardian Ad Litem question?

Question

I am involved in a termination/adoption (we are on the adoption side) and I was wondering if any of you have gone through this and what does the guardian look for? I know what they want to know from the absent parent but what about us? What is she going to ask us?

Answer 1

You will be lucky if they even meet you before you step up in front of the judge!  Even so, it will likely be basic stuff -- do you love her, can you take care of her, is she doing well, healthy, and your husband's relationship wit her, etc.  I am assuming you had a homestudy done, and that will speak for you.  They will likely focus on the birthfather and his job, support, contact with her, etc.   If the evidence is pretty strong against him, it should not be too difficult unless he has suddenly decided to step up to the plate.  Then it could complicate the termination.  Good luck to all of you!!

Answer 2

She will have a few minor questions but bottom line is baby will have a Dad so long as hubby is certain he is ready for his part of lifelong labor of love.. if no child support and no visitation for 2+ yrs, then it should go smoothly!! Keep the faith kiddo.. now and always

Answer 3

A guardian Ad Litem is your childs attorney...and they should only have a small interview with your hubby!

Answer 4

Her job is to make an objective recommendation to the judge on behalf of the child.  She will read your homestudy, and talk with you before court (sometimes on the phone, sometimes in person).  She may ask you to clarify some things in the homestudy.  She will want to make sure that you are are ready, willing, and able to parent this particular child.  She will also make sure you haven't bribed or coerced the birthparents.  She will probably not probe as much as your homestudy social worker did, as she will be given an advance copy of the agency's recommendation.

Answer 5

The job of the GAL is to make sure the best interests of the child are represented.  She will probably ask you how you will meet any special/unique needs the child has, also about your parenting/discipline styles.  Good luck!