Guy advice, for males only . . . =D?

Question

There's this guy and he's one of my best mates and we hang out heaps at school. I was just wondering, from a guys point of view, if you thought a girl was pretty good looking, you didn't know much about her and you wanted to talk to her but then you saw her hanging out with this other guy all the time. What would you do?

Answer 1

back off

Answer 2

i would let her just be with the other guy until shes ready 4 me

Answer 3

It depends, if i would like you enough, i would start trying harding for your attention. if i thought there were other fish in the sea, then i would forget about it and look somewhere else. so my advice is give more attention to this guy you like then any other guy.

Answer 4

I would grow suspicious and but if i was attracted to you i would ask about him in a safe way.  

Answer 5

Depends on the person, everyone is different and everyone has a different past with dating and everything. Plus it also depends on if this guy likes you as only a friend, because some guy do. Plus another factor some guys are g*y and just want to be friends due to there sexuality, and then some guys might not want to date yet, due to a lot of things like not being ready or just got out of a relationship. why dont you ask him for yourself, see how he feels, hes your friend right? thats what friends are for.

Answer 6

nothing

Answer 7

geez girl, you like him, and you figure he likes you.  Go say hi, and let him know your friend is just your friend.

If I saw yu hanging with a guy all the time, I might figure you want to b with him, ya know?...

might not want to intrude...

btw, how does your mate feel about you seeing guys?... the answer might surprise you, but I hope not.

Answer 8

I would get wicked jealous, probably draw more attention to myself hoping that you'd pay more attention, but pretend that Its just normal to avoid looking weird. I'd also take advantage of every situation where I can make him look like a total ***.

Answer 9

I would honestly try to talk to the girl, not face to face, maybe AIM or MSN or something like that, and ask her if she likes that other guy, but i would try to ask as if it was a joke.  If she said yes, then i would actually try to help her get with him cause then when they break up i will be her good friend, and i will have a higher chance of getting with her.  If she says no, then i would try to go out with her just us two without calling it a date, and if its nice ill do it again.  and eventually ill try to make a move on her.  Hope that helps

Answer 10

that totally depends on the guy. if he is bold and cocky he would have no problem jumping in and might even plan an attack to interupt. however if he is shy and quiet he probably would just turn and go the other direction

Answer 11

i'd probably wait a few days before making a move on the girl. but you dont like somebody just becuase they look aproachable. i had this one girl who blew me off straight away and said that she didnt converse with "chinks" what ever that means. but i'd sort of get to know the guy first before saying anything. that way you have some kind of link with her

Answer 12

First off, I'd have to figure out more about you by, idk, gettin to know people who know you. Then I could ask these people what the situation was with you and this guy your always around. So, bottom line i guess is: I'd get more information before doing anything.